Littlemissme Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 Feeling very very low about my break up, nothing bad happened but he doesnt feel the same anymore. I want him back soo badly and my head and heart just hurt. I have never felt bad after a break up before but I miss him terribly. I am in a house on my own for 2 weeks and no-one knows where. I feel like doing something stupid. I have been asleep all day with dreams of him leaving me all over again and I don't think I can take anything.... its all too painful.
letters Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 . I feel like doing something stupid. QUOTE] Please don't do anything stupid. I was just as down yesterday, although not from love forlorn, but sharing my feelings on LS helped. Keep posting and reading here, or you could leave the house, go to the mall, or do something to engage your thoughts positively. Or better yet, read other people's post. Hugzzzzzzzzz.
Cora Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 Yes, please do not do anything stupid. It's so not worth it no matter how bad you feel! I have been going through a lot of depressed days lately and it's tough. The worst thing you can do is be alone with your thoughts for days at a time. Go out and do something and be around people as much as possible. It really does help even though that's the last thing you want to do. I find that being alone just makes me even more depressed and I start thinking too much about things and about him ughh!! Hang in there and if you have to be alone then write, write as much as possible. That really does help a lot too! It's gonna get better! At least that's what I keep telling myself.
Author Littlemissme Posted April 12, 2009 Author Posted April 12, 2009 Calmed myself down for now annoyingly he was the only one around after trying 20+ of my mates, I can't do the NC thing as much as I want to because we still have the same friends and he is pushing to be friends. His dad is terminally ill and I dont want to turn my back on him at the moment. I'm trying and thank you for the comments xx
Meaplus3 Posted April 12, 2009 Posted April 12, 2009 Calmed myself down for now annoyingly he was the only one around after trying 20+ of my mates, I can't do the NC thing as much as I want to because we still have the same friends and he is pushing to be friends. His dad is terminally ill and I dont want to turn my back on him at the moment. I'm trying and thank you for the comments xx I'm so glad to hear you have calmed down. If you can't do the NC thing at the moment, try to have as little contact as possible. It's very natural to feel grief when you go through break up. Give yourself the time you need to get over it and remember we all heal at our own rates. You will be ok.. And you will be able to move forward at some point. Best wishes. Mea:)
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