bac Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 I am confused about how to deal with a male orgasm during vaginal sex. From what I have read about that I understand that a man feels the desire to stop sex and just to relax after the orgasm. Anyway in reality from my experience they have a kind of silent orgasm which I can not notice and they continue vaginal sex for a while. Like they want to pretend that they are still going on and they can please me longer. What shell I do about that ? Perhaps nothing. But it is confusing to me because I am thinking during sex about if he had an orgasm and if I am lost and torture him making him do vaginal sex after he cums. Actually it is very pleasant to me to feel his orgasm when he is inside me. I really want to feel that. But I am afraid to talk about that because he may neglect it and I guess it is difficult to men to change their sex routine on demand. What kind of pleasure do men feel when a female has an orgasm with oral stimulation? Is it just some emotional stuff? When a man has an orgasm during vaginal sex I feel a physical pleasure because he is inside me.
letters Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 Huh? Lol, male silent orgasm? are you kidding? If he is not the:..... "ah! uhh! hmmmm! I'm gonna cum, I'm gonna cum!!!!!!!! uh! uh! uh! uhhhhhh!!!!!!" type, then he should at least groan a little bit when he cums, either way, you'd know when he uhmm, orgasms! Lol! sorry if I sound vulgar.
Author bac Posted April 11, 2009 Author Posted April 11, 2009 Huh? Lol, male silent orgasm? are you kidding? If he is not the:..... "ah! uhh! hmmmm! I'm gonna cum, I'm gonna cum!!!!!!!! uh! uh! uh! uhhhhhh!!!!!!" type, then he should at least groan a little bit when he cums, either way, you'd know when he uhmm, orgasms! Lol! sorry if I sound vulgar. Thank you for your comment. But he is making many of the sounds you have described just during sex even there is no orgasm.
samspade Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 Wait...so is he still hard after he orgasms? If he is, you've struck gold, baby. Unless there's someone in the next room I don't want hearing me, I'm usually pretty loud during an orgasm (and so is she). And giving oral can be a turn on - not physically pleasurable, but it's great to hear/see/feel a woman enjoying that, too. Tell him you want to feel him come inside you. He'll probably be all for it.
missdependant Posted April 12, 2009 Posted April 12, 2009 LOL dude! Just ask him if he came after you think he came.
Jambalaya Posted April 12, 2009 Posted April 12, 2009 What kind of pleasure do men feel when a female has an orgasm with oral stimulation? Is it just some emotional stuff? When a man has an orgasm during vaginal sex I feel a physical pleasure because he is inside me. Probably the same pleasure you would feel giving him oral sex (taking for granted that you enjoy giving as well as receiving) - it's a turn on, and the brain is the most sensitive of erogenous zones. Happily, giving oral sex gets my partner ridiculously excited to the point of almost orgasm.
single ape Posted April 12, 2009 Posted April 12, 2009 they feel like the skies opened up with rainbows and cotton candy clouds and a wild pack of unicorns runs through a field, stopping by their side to cook them a pancake breakfast with fresh orange juice while a band of elves plays the bad news bears theme song through a cacophony of hand pinned trumpets. That's what it feels like.
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