anhonestfella Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 I am still in love with my ex fella, and missing him like crazy, I left him because he was very controlling, what I wear, where I go, came in between all of my friends, and said I should only trust him, he mimicked me and copied me held my hand and was gentle at times, but had this need to be fully in charge, he said that he was incharge of the relationship, I left him last Sunday have sent a lovely text yesterday telling him I do still love him but wished that he would have shown more love to me.......... He wont answer my texts etc, and his friends have appreared to take him away for a few days, it makes me look bad, but cant get him out of my head, I wouldn't care im the victim in all of this and Im made to feel really bad What can I do?
Darkness7 Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 I am still in love with my ex fella, and missing him like crazy, I left him because he was very controlling, what I wear, where I go, came in between all of my friends, and said I should only trust him, he mimicked me and copied me held my hand and was gentle at times, but had this need to be fully in charge, he said that he was incharge of the relationship, I left him last Sunday have sent a lovely text yesterday telling him I do still love him but wished that he would have shown more love to me.......... He wont answer my texts etc, and his friends have appreared to take him away for a few days, it makes me look bad, but cant get him out of my head, I wouldn't care im the victim in all of this and Im made to feel really bad What can I do? Maybe your ex bf is realising he hasn't shown you he loves you as much as you wished he would have and just needs to get away for a few days because the break-up was maybe a shock to him. I think you need time to heal as well and you need some time on your own to sort out your feelings, how you really feel.
Author anhonestfella Posted April 11, 2009 Author Posted April 11, 2009 So maybe deep down he's hurting too, he said only last week that he loved me, I just wish he would have been more open with me, and displayed his feelings, im going crazy, and hope to get him back, I know its wrong but I love him would even die for him which he was told when I took him on holiday, just can't understand the silence
Darkness7 Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 So maybe deep down he's hurting too, he said only last week that he loved me, I just wish he would have been more open with me, and displayed his feelings, im going crazy, and hope to get him back, I know its wrong but I love him would even die for him which he was told when I took him on holiday, just can't understand the silence Yes, I think he may be hurting too. People show their emotions in different ways and maybe when he is hurting, he cuts himself off from the people he really cares about and loves. I know it must be so awful for you not knowing what's going on (I've been there with my ex-fiancee), but if you want another chance, then you need to be strong and go through it with NC. It's the best chance you have of getting him back. Best of luck!
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