Could it work or it looks unlikely?

[AbyBaby]

I dated this girl today for first time in a coffee shop that I met through a dating site. She was there with her friends waiting for me and her friends left for dinner once I arrived. She had already bought her coffee before i came so I bought mine and we sat and started talking.

 

We chatted for about an hour. It seemed to be a good conversation, I also made her laugh a few times. But I did most of the talking. But towards the last 15 minutes it seemed like she wasnt asking any questions nor sipping her coffee. Then I asked her if i could get another one which she refused and said she needed to join her friends as they had plans. I asked her if she'd like to see me again and she said yes.

 

I dont know whether the date was a success and whether she'd like to see me again. Could she genuinely have plans with friends or was she just trying to end it in a nice manner? What would any of you with experience say about this?

[Island Girl]

She had her friends there to see you so she could get their input about you afterward.

 

They were there strategically to get their impression.

Then they were going to go to "dinner" and wait while she had a mini-date with you so she could meet up with them after.

 

Just an FYI because it doesn't seem like you picked up on that.

 

After the hour she knew her friends were waiting for her so she had to go.

If she was completely floored by you she could have made a discreet phone call from the restroom and called the meet up with her friends off.

BUT she may not have wanted to inconvenience all of them either.

 

With that said it seems like she did like you.

 

But the fact that she wanted her friends opinion of you doesn't speak well of her.

 

Any girl you date should worry more about what she thinks and how she feels than what her friends think of you. That is IMO obviously.

 

It looks good.

 

Now we'll both never know for sure until you ask her out on a real date - not something that'll just be an hour and see what she says.

[Lucky_One]

Well, she could have wanted friend's impressions, or she could have been worried about safety since she met you online. The friends stuck around long enough to make sure you weren't a mass murderer.

 

I'd call her again. I don't see any big red flags.

[BobSacamento]

Also she may have done this so if she got stood up she didn't look/feel like a pathetic loser. I wouldn't look too deep into it. Now did you get her number? If so give her a call and set something up, if her friends are there again then you have an issue lol.

[AbyBaby]

well I texted her today to wish her Happy Easter and to say that I enjoyed spending time with her but she hasnt replied back. Should I assume she is not interested or should I try to call her in a few days?