belocchoc129 Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 Hi guys, before asking this question, I've already known the answer is NO. But I need someone to tell me that again, to let me stop dreaming and regretting. This guy and me have been friends for over a year. When I was in the most desperate and hopeless situation ever in my life, he was the one who gave me hope and strengthened my faith, being by my side, take me everywhere I wanted, and did everything to please me. At first, he asked me to be his gf, but I refused for some reasons though I liked him. Then when we got out of high school, we rarely contacted. He had a weird habit. He told me he didnt want to call anyone but he also told me to never hesitate or feel uncomfortable to call him. He'll be always my good friend. But the thing was he never told me any of his problems, he always pretended everything was fine in front of me (indeed, he told it to one of my friend, she's also his close friend, so I knew that). Now we went to the same college, but our schedule was different. We met each other a couple of times just by accident. And we never talked much again. We stayed out of touch for a while. When I changed my number, I did let him know that. His attitude and his behaviors told me so clearly that he didnt care anymore. But I still hope, just a little hope, that deep inside of him, he still cares about me a little bit though he didnt say it (coz I did refused him twice in the past). So guys, please tell me once again that he didn't care, so I can get out of this hopeless dream.
Ronni_W Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 So guys, please tell me once again that he didn't care, so I can get out of this hopeless dream. He used to care. But he has expanded his horizons, developed other interests, is a different person now than he used to be. It is a "hopeless dream" to be wanting to have a relationship with him at this point. The past is the past. Be free to pursue all the good stuff that is available to you in your present reality...and that will be available to you in your future. (He isn't a part of any of that.) Right? Hugs, and wishing you LOTS of good stuff!!!
Author belocchoc129 Posted April 11, 2009 Author Posted April 11, 2009 Thank you very much. God, it seems to me that you can read my mind and u understand thoroughly the whole situation though I didn't state the whole thing. Yes, it is true and that's what I feel right now. He seems to be a different person than he used to be. I don't know what happened, I want to care, but I can't. I dated a couple of guys but they didn't bring me the joy and laughers as he did. So.....I don't know, I try to find other interest in life to have fun for myself. Thank you again
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