blue7 Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 Okay, I am not gonna beat around the bush. I am so mad at my stbxw. We are still in the same house, but ocasionally, she'll stay at her parents...same for me. I am so mad but I would never do anything to really hurt her, but I'd really like to piss her off. (just for kicks) Any suggestions? Seriously pissed off or funny pissed off. I'll take both. B.
troubadour Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 Start dating Tina Fey... You will accomplish both of your goals at the same time... your STBXW will be seriously pissed off and she will be also funny pissed off at the same time. And you will have Tina... Good luck, man.
Author blue7 Posted April 10, 2009 Author Posted April 10, 2009 tina's busy this weekend...maybe next week.
Woggle Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 Bre happy without her having a thing to do with it.
D-Lish Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 Bre happy without her having a thing to do with it. Couldn't agree more!
Author blue7 Posted April 10, 2009 Author Posted April 10, 2009 i know i know you are right...i was/am just in a mood... (and i'll still take suggestions)
D-Lish Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 i know i know you are right...i was/am just in a mood... (and i'll still take suggestions) If you put time and energy into pissing her off- you're only hsowing her she still affects you. Why not put that energy into doing positive things to make YOU feel better. That IS the best kind of revenge.
whichwayisup Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 Success is the highest form of revenge. Exactly. BE HAPPY around her, act like life is great. That will get her going and wonder WTF. No reason to play games, especially since they are kids involved.
Sibyl Vane Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 Grab her arse. It may not end so well for you but it should be pretty funny for those not within striking distance.
Chrome Barracuda Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 Bang a hotter looking woman half her age that's great in bed and strut about it? I mean you guys are seperated and are gonna finalize the divorce?
Author blue7 Posted April 13, 2009 Author Posted April 13, 2009 All of you are right. Truth is, I am just so pissed off. (and hurt) She and her family are so inconsiderate and stuck on themselves. Being the bigger person is not always the easiest thing to do. Especially, when their head is so inflated with how great they think they are. And (also) truthfully putting someone in their place can be very fullfilling. I think I was looking for a laugh. Hoping to hear suggestions like, clean the toliet with her tooth brush. Itching powder in her underwear, etc.
Bluebird In My Heart Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 Under the circumstances, I can understand the impulse - but it's just not going to help anyone, least of all you. It's just wrong. Thing is, you know how they are, and it hurts...but thinking of trying to get a reaction is still putting the focus on them...making them yet more important. See if you can put some kind of plan together, something for you to get enthusiastic about accomplishing for yourself. This way, you are putting your emotional energy in a person that truly deserves it - and likely has been neglected way too long, it seems - you.
TaraMaiden Posted April 13, 2009 Posted April 13, 2009 Give her a sealed money box, like the kind you must break to get the money out. we have these in Italy, made of pottery. Put some money in it, and give it to her. "Look, I started it off for you!" rattle it. She then won't be aware of the piece of raw fish or raw chicken skin you have also put in there.... My brother did this to me on my 14th birthday. I can still smell it now. It is not very kind, but it is funny. Sorry.
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