katty774 Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 Trying to do NC, did good for one week and then he called me. I caved and we shared a few text messages and he called on Monday and then he called today but I missed his call. He has my cell phone number so I don't know why he called me at my office. I didn't call him back because he told my secretary that he would call back. He then text me around 3 pm and said he was only to calling to see how I was doing. I text back, I'm fine, Have a great weekend and wonderful Easter. He replied with - You to. Why is he contacting me? It is so hard for me not to contact him and I can't help but think he still cares when he initiates the contact. Any views on what he is doing would be great.
trying123 Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 who broke up with who? regardless, if he is the breakup or the breakupee, either he wants to get back together or he wants to make sure you don't hate him, either way it is really selfish and you should let him know that regardless even if you want him back, the only way is to go NC, I did she wanted be back, I wouldn't recommend getting back together, but NC is the only way, you have to really think, is he contacting to be nice, or is he keeping his conscious clean?
emptyme Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 when you get a text, dont reply. When he calls, dont call back.. silence is DEADLY.
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