princess75 Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 For all of you out there, What does a man mean when they say: 'I always had good times with you, but that is not enough"? ???
kristine bagtas Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 it only means that he likes you for fun....no strings attach..or no love at all.
Truly Lost Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 I guess he is trying to say that he enjoys your company, but it doesn't go deeper than that. Sometimes you meet someone you like, but you don't have chemistry. You can't control that. You know that saying, "You can't choose the ones you love."
Author princess75 Posted April 10, 2009 Author Posted April 10, 2009 Question: Is this true after being with eahc other for sooo long. In addition, he has said he loved me in the past. He started all this one week after we decided to go long distance for some time...
Ronni_W Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 He started all this one week after we decided to go long distance for some time... Maybe AFTER going long distance he realized that what he did have with, and does feel about, you isn't enough for HIM to sustain the relationship any longer? (Don't know...just throwing out a possibility.) Sad truth is that sometimes it becomes "out of sight, out of mind/heart" instead of "absence makes the heart grow fonder." At the end of the day though, WHATEVER led him to feel/know that this relationship does not offer him enough of what HE needs to feel fulfilled, it still just is that he feels unfulfilled/as if there's something more/as if he is lacking something. If that's all he told you, then he may not even be 100% clear on any of it himself. That is, he could be acting from his feeling/sense of things, and sometimes it's difficult to put words to that. Still hurts, sucks and can be confusing, though. I'm sorry you're going through it.
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