Author copaisking Posted May 3, 2009 Author Posted May 3, 2009 and then I got this... 'its cool, i'm excited for you but don't worry about calling. Its for the better. Just like you didn't want anything to do with me, I don't want anything to do with 'chatting' with you. You're a great person and deserve the world, but i'm not a part of that world' I know I should have just stayed silent...but I sent her this... 'I understand, but I was thinking about things the other day and you were right, the break up was definitely for the best, but it would be a shame to throw away our friendship...' jeeeeeeeeeeeeeezus Blah Toolz, I read through your thread, probably three times. I stayed NC for 35 days (well, me not initiating any, I only replied to her emails twice, the last being on April 12th) I do get what everyone is saying, and I know that we all think that our relationship problems were this whole unique thing that nobody else can really understand at all, and I also know that i'm wrong when I say that, people can understand, and do understand. What I will give her is this... she's been honest here, and not given me any sign that she wants me back at all, which as much as it hurts... is good. The worst thing is that the girl I was meant to be going out with tonight flaked for the second time in a week...which kind of threw me back a bit as well
Author copaisking Posted May 3, 2009 Author Posted May 3, 2009 The latest installment... I woke up with to this text message: "thats what I was saying when we broke up. I didn't want to never see you again, or never speak to you again, but you wouldn't have it. So this is what I settled for and have accepted. I'm sorry if this all sounds cold but its what i've grown to know in regards to me and you. There can't be a friendship between us, you've said it before and i've granted your wish and will continue to" Now I don't know whether to go no contact again...or send her a text (I ****ing hate the fact that she doesn't pick the phone up and just resorts to text) admitting to my mistakes. Honestly, regarding her response so far, i'm not that gutted...if it was 3 weeks ago it would have been a huge blow... right now, i'm fine with it. If anyone is thinking about buying any of these 'get your ex back' books... don't... every piece of advice they have given me has backfired. The psychological tricks just pissed her off more, the whole 'make her jealous' thing just pushed her away more. They tell you to do at least 30 days No Contact...and she'll be begging for you back...well, it doesn't really look like it in this case does it? The 30 day NC appears to have pissed her off further, and all of my chances rekindling what I thought was the only girl for me, the perfect girl, everything I ever wanted in a girl (apart from the dumping me and inadvertently putting me in therapy part )are absolutely dead... not only that... but she appears to not even give 2 cents about me anymore... if I had chased her, I honestly think it would have been different...
Excellent Posted May 3, 2009 Posted May 3, 2009 She sounds just like my ex. Chased me, made me feel like the luckiest man on in the universe. I practically leaped and crashed into the love-wall, head first. I treated her like a queen, i never complained about anything, always gave her my best. Then, after 3 months she got tired and dumped me like a lump of ****. But not before she made me go through 2 hellish weeks of making me feel like an unattractive annoyance. Now, i know where i ****ed up. And i have gone deep to sort out that, and i am ready to try again with someone else when that time comes. But women like her and your ex, will never learn until their karma backfires on them. They need to get dumped before they understand the value of a person who loves them. I knew that my ex was "friends" with all her exes, and she did have contact with them from time to time. They would be sending textes, messaging her on msn etc. I could see that she felt nothing when talking about them, so it didn't bother me. Now, it would send up a big red flag. She feeds of their attention, and mine. She hooks up with someone, makes them treat her like a queen, then gets bored and dumps them, and moves on to the next. And if you are unwilling to be friend with them after the break, wow...then you are in for it, all drama. Only difference between our exes is that i have to work with her Stick with NC my friend, it helps.
Author copaisking Posted May 3, 2009 Author Posted May 3, 2009 hey excellent I remember thinking when I first figured out that she speaks to all of her exes 'oh thats nice, she seems mature'...wrong! obviously, sub-consciously she keeps them around for attention... When we split I knew I wanted her back so I thought I would try and 'flip' it, not act like any ex has ever acted, you know, ignoring her etc (its all in my loooooong ass post in this thread) making her jealous...and I think it worked...she definitely got confused by my behaviour but unfortunately for me, she flipped it back on me, convincing herself that she never really knew the real me...which hurts. I'm with you on future relationships...if she's friends with all her exes... i'm running faster than Bolt. The stupid thing is, I still hold hope to get back with her... even 6 weeks after she sh*t canned me, I still think she's 99% perfect... hopefully therapy will help
Excellent Posted May 3, 2009 Posted May 3, 2009 hey excellent I remember thinking when I first figured out that she speaks to all of her exes 'oh thats nice, she seems mature'...wrong! obviously, sub-consciously she keeps them around for attention... When we split I knew I wanted her back so I thought I would try and 'flip' it, not act like any ex has ever acted, you know, ignoring her etc (its all in my loooooong ass post in this thread) making her jealous...and I think it worked...she definitely got confused by my behaviour but unfortunately for me, she flipped it back on me, convincing herself that she never really knew the real me...which hurts. I'm with you on future relationships...if she's friends with all her exes... i'm running faster than Bolt. The stupid thing is, I still hold hope to get back with her... even 6 weeks after she sh*t canned me, I still think she's 99% perfect... hopefully therapy will help I feel with you on this one. I have to admit that i searched everywhere in "how to win your ex back" and stuff like that. I did read several books, and also about relationships in general, what causes breakups, how attraction works on the opposite sex etc. I'm actually not that much 'out there", and i don't have women banging on my door or flooding me with messages on facebook. But reading all these things was really interesting, i managed to find out why it went down the drain, and what of a person she was, and still is. I learned a lot, so in the end, i have gotten something valuable out of it. In a way, you can say i found myself. I do know now what i want, what i expect from a future partner, and also what i expect from myself. I started with the thought of getting her back, but i am now where i took the initiative to cut her loose for good, and let her pursue her own life without me in it. I still have to see her at work every day, 5 days a week. But that's ok, i'm used to it now. I am currently stepping carefully out on the dating scene again, and we'll see how it goes. But even if i want to find someone as fast as possible, i will take my time to find out who they really are before i commit myself 100% again.
Author copaisking Posted May 3, 2009 Author Posted May 3, 2009 you know what... I think i'm done with her. I do want to give her the letter that I wrote, basically to make sure that I know that she knows that I know shes full of sh&t and she did know the real me, in fact, she had the best of me.. so find another route of justification for your decision to dump me. Nobody will ever treat her like I did... well, nobody in this town anyway... good luck trying. Anybody know any hot non mental women in Los Angeles?
Excellent Posted May 3, 2009 Posted May 3, 2009 you know what... I think i'm done with her. I do want to give her the letter that I wrote, basically to make sure that I know that she knows that I know shes full of sh&t and she did know the real me, in fact, she had the best of me.. so find another route of justification for your decision to dump me. Nobody will ever treat her like I did... well, nobody in this town anyway... good luck trying. Anybody know any hot non mental women in Los Angeles? A wise descision, start looking forward! It's better to continue NC and step det healing process up. It works, that i promise. Just keep yourself busy, thats the key. Thats what i did. Can't help you on the non mental women in LA part tho, i live on the other side of the planet
Author copaisking Posted May 5, 2009 Author Posted May 5, 2009 Island_Girl... don't shoot me... I have decided that, well, I know that Nic and I will not get back together. Thats probably for the best, and one day I will definitely see it that way. The thing is... I have put this protective barrier around her, and I want to make sure that she is ok... like, in the future, i'm not talking a friendship, i'm talking an email/phone call every couple of months. So I sent her this text: "I completely understand. When we broke up I was so hurt it felt like the only things I could do was to cease all contact with you, like it was the only thing that I could do at that moment, but now it has all settled in and everything is clear. I am glad that you had a break from knowing me, I needed to work on myself, I needed to seclude myself and get my head straight. All I am implying is to just have a beer/coffee/power run sometime with no hard feelings. I don't have to pretend to not like you or vise versa, it is ridiculous. Keep in touch, beer's on me next time." She ignored me. I thought that text was mature, friendly, for lack of a better word... nice. It does give me a slight ego boost though, knowing that she can't handle to know what I have been doing with my life. To be fair, loads of exciting things have happened in my life since we split up... in the next two weeks my dental implant finally goes in (ive been waiting a year), yesterday I had my teeth whitened (although the peroxide burnt my lip, so I look like I had a fight), i'm studying acting for a change of career and have already been offered a bit part in a small production. i've put on weight (when we split I was 143 pounds, now i'm 150... i'm 5'10), and now that I have started therapy I feel like i'm dealing with my co-dependancy/anxiety/depression issues, which I know all of these had a hand in the break up... I can never just seem to chill out with a girl and just date them, I always have to go full on into a relationship, and thats not right. Anyway... I am intrigued by your opinions on my text message... as I said, its in no way to get her back, just a genuine message. thanks Dave
Island Girl Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 Island_Girl... don't shoot me... The shotgun is cocked and ready... I have decided that, well, I know that Nic and I will not get back together. Thats probably for the best, and one day I will definitely see it that way. The thing is... I have put this protective barrier around her, and I want to make sure that she is ok... like, in the future, i'm not talking a friendship, i'm talking an email/phone call every couple of months. You are concerned about her being okay? She has plenty of ex boyfriends to make sure she's okay. They are around, still hung up on her, and never able to move on because they all want to make sure she's okay. Do not be one of them. Move on with your life. She will be fine. She will meet someone else or call upon the guys waiting in the wings. You want to make sure she's okay but SHE DOESN'T WANT TO MAKE SURE YOU'RE OKAY. In fact she put you into a tailspin and then wasn't checking on you in any way to make sure you're fine. So I sent her this text: "I completely understand. When we broke up I was so hurt it felt like the only things I could do was to cease all contact with you, like it was the only thing that I could do at that moment, but now it has all settled in and everything is clear. I am glad that you had a break from knowing me, I needed to work on myself, I needed to seclude myself and get my head straight. All I am implying is to just have a beer/coffee/power run sometime with no hard feelings. I don't have to pretend to not like you or vise versa, it is ridiculous. Keep in touch, beer's on me next time." She ignored me. So NO MORE CONTACT right?!! She ignored this and there is NO reason to make sure she is okay. You have no reason to contact her ever again. And you shouldn't contact her ever again. You know those guys she has hanging around? Her exes? They have not moved on to find someone to be in their lives. They are stuck. Please do not join their ranks. I thought that text was mature, friendly, for lack of a better word... nice. It does give me a slight ego boost though, knowing that she can't handle to know what I have been doing with my life. To be fair, loads of exciting things have happened in my life since we split up... in the next two weeks my dental implant finally goes in (ive been waiting a year), yesterday I had my teeth whitened (although the peroxide burnt my lip, so I look like I had a fight), i'm studying acting for a change of career and have already been offered a bit part in a small production. i've put on weight (when we split I was 143 pounds, now i'm 150... i'm 5'10), and now that I have started therapy I feel like i'm dealing with my co-dependancy/anxiety/depression issues, which I know all of these had a hand in the break up... I can never just seem to chill out with a girl and just date them, I always have to go full on into a relationship, and thats not right. This is GREAT!! You are focusing on yourself. And you are already making changes for the better! In this new life you are creating there will eventually be room for a SO. And eventually you will meet a woman with whom you can have a healthy mutually supportive relationship with. THAT woman deserves your time and focus. And it not fair to her to have Nic anywhere around your life. In fact, to a woman with her head on straight it would be a deterrent especially if she knows the history. Give yourself the best opportunity of eventually having a fulfilling relationship and don't drag along the ghost of your past relationship with you. Anyway... I am intrigued by your opinions on my text message... as I said, its in no way to get her back, just a genuine message. thanks Dave I am glad you feel good about it. I am glad you have such great things going on in your life now. I think you should just stop contact now. Permanently. No checking to make sure she's okay. Just cut all ties. No more messages in any fashion. Enjoy creating your new life. That is exciting. And at some point you will meet someone new. And she will captivate you and you will begin a relationship. Doesn't she deserve to have a man that is not encumbered by his ex? Don't you?
redfathom Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 I have a question about the ring, when she was showing you the ring(s) she wanted, did you agree to buy the one she wanted? I think she is used to getting what she wants and threw a tantrum. But she never expected you to handle it like this and it annoys her. Why should you feel guilty for moving on when she dumped you...
Author copaisking Posted May 5, 2009 Author Posted May 5, 2009 ***sigh*** the ring... she showed me a picture and stuck it on my bathroom mirror, I would move it, she would move it back. No, I didn't agree to buy it for her, it was kind of a jokey thing, we've both been married before... but she really gave me the impression that she wanted to marry me, but in the last month of our relationship she eased off that talk. I know she's not used to people treating her like I did after the break up... basically I went all out no contact, but its not like it was a surprise for her, I told her that I was ceasing all contact. I shouldn't feel guilty, this is the first time in my life, that I can honestly say that I have never treated a girl so well, and so positively, if she doesn't want that then why I am I bothered?... because rejection absolutely sucks ass thats why Today guys, i'm having a really bad day. Yesterday was ok, the day before was amazing, I was great... that was the day that she told me she can't have any contact with me.
Island Girl Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 Today guys, i'm having a really bad day. Yesterday was ok, the day before was amazing, I was great... that was the day that she told me she can't have any contact with me. Bad days are expected. Especially when you contact. It is ALWAYS a set back. Sometimes you just don't feel the impact for a couple days. You will have good days again. And you will have more and more if you keep working on yourself and resolve to never contact again. Really. NO CONTACT. You get NOTHING out of it. Don't work to give yourself setbacks. Work to improve each day. I am sorry today has been tough. Maybe you should go look at your new bright white smile in the mirror and realize you are lookin' good!
Excellent Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 I think you should just stop contact now. Permanently. No checking to make sure she's okay. Just cut all ties. No more messages in any fashion. Enjoy creating your new life. That is exciting. And at some point you will meet someone new. And she will captivate you and you will begin a relationship. Doesn't she deserve to have a man that is not encumbered by his ex? Don't you? She's right dude. After the break with my ex i was constantly trying to show that i cared in hopes of melting her heart again. Eventhough i did not contact her ever by my initiative, i would always respond when she texted me, saying she was sick etc. Always wishing her well, to take care and so on. Did i get the same thing whenever i had the flu or something after the break? No. I got zero. At best i would only get "oh" back when she asked if i was sick and missing from work. And everytime, she ripped my heart out, stabbed it, threw it on the road and finally taking her car to run over it. Atleast thats how it felt, because she obviously did not care. And still, she wanted us to be friends....right.
Author copaisking Posted May 5, 2009 Author Posted May 5, 2009 thanks guys its weird, I just get these suicidal, absolutely ridiculous thoughts in my head. She knows that shes fuc&ing with me, she knows that she is upsetting me... why would I want to be with her... she blatantly doesn't care anymore
Island Girl Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 she blatantly doesn't care anymore She cares for the only person she has really ever cared about ----- HERSELF. You can not allow a person to have this much of an impact on you. Especially someone that is incapable of a mature relationship or maintaining any relationship. Don't buy into the mind scramble anymore. FREE AT LAST! FREE AT LAST! Scream it from the rooftop if you have to but get it to sink in. It is the truth. You are free of the succubus.
Excellent Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 She cares for the only person she has really ever cared about ----- HERSELF. You can not allow a person to have this much of an impact on you. Especially someone that is incapable of a mature relationship or maintaining any relationship. Don't buy into the mind scramble anymore. FREE AT LAST! FREE AT LAST! Scream it from the rooftop if you have to but get it to sink in. It is the truth. You are free of the succubus. Yes, there is no point in suffering over her anymore. She (like my ex) will continue jumping from relationship to relationship, because they think that they will eventually bump into someone they can stay with. But the truth is that the minute she gets whats she wants, wich is you and your commitment, she's gone. Because then she is done, excitement is over for her. They will be stuck in this cycle until they get dumped themselves, and THEN, then they will change. Because thats when they have to dig deep, like we have and do now. Learn what THEY need to change. And perhaps then they will learn the value of a person who loves them. My ex said to me right after the break that she did not fit in any relationship. And this kinda stuck with me, and now i know why. And it's because of what i wrote right above. I only wonder how long her current relationship lasts. All that i know is that the minute her current bf stops being a challenge, he's history.
LovieDove24 Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 Island_Girl... don't shoot me... I have decided that, well, I know that Nic and I will not get back together. Thats probably for the best, and one day I will definitely see it that way. The thing is... I have put this protective barrier around her, and I want to make sure that she is ok... like, in the future, i'm not talking a friendship, i'm talking an email/phone call every couple of months. So I sent her this text: "I completely understand. When we broke up I was so hurt it felt like the only things I could do was to cease all contact with you, like it was the only thing that I could do at that moment, but now it has all settled in and everything is clear. I am glad that you had a break from knowing me, I needed to work on myself, I needed to seclude myself and get my head straight. All I am implying is to just have a beer/coffee/power run sometime with no hard feelings. I don't have to pretend to not like you or vise versa, it is ridiculous. Keep in touch, beer's on me next time." She ignored me. I thought that text was mature, friendly, for lack of a better word... nice. It does give me a slight ego boost though, knowing that she can't handle to know what I have been doing with my life. To be fair, loads of exciting things have happened in my life since we split up... in the next two weeks my dental implant finally goes in (ive been waiting a year), yesterday I had my teeth whitened (although the peroxide burnt my lip, so I look like I had a fight), i'm studying acting for a change of career and have already been offered a bit part in a small production. i've put on weight (when we split I was 143 pounds, now i'm 150... i'm 5'10), and now that I have started therapy I feel like i'm dealing with my co-dependancy/anxiety/depression issues, which I know all of these had a hand in the break up... I can never just seem to chill out with a girl and just date them, I always have to go full on into a relationship, and thats not right. Anyway... I am intrigued by your opinions on my text message... as I said, its in no way to get her back, just a genuine message. thanks Dave Ahhh yes I thought you'd never say it. I am no therapist but your relationship with this girl had codependency written all over it. She was your world, your everything, SHE made you feel good about you. Island girl has played the man-eater part before, and I have played the codependent bit before. Keep going to therapy, keep digging to find strength in yourself and I PROMISE as someone whos been there before: even if you still love the girl you will find happiness alone. That is the kind of contentment you just can't buy.
Author copaisking Posted May 12, 2009 Author Posted May 12, 2009 so today I woke up and thought that it would be a great idea to send her the letter that I wrote to her, the one from a few pages back in the thread. I also wrote a letter setting a few things straight (for me, not for her). as i'm in my car, I drive by her work... stop the car, and against my better judgement, go into her work (she works in a restaurant about 2 miles away from my house... its great I drive by it every day) and see her... her jaw pretty much hit the ground. Her co-workers jaw pretty much hit the ground. So I walked in and announced... 'well, this is awkward'... in a funny tone. She came over and said hi, looking rather confused, and I gave her the note and told her that I thought that a lot of things had gotten twisted and I wanted to straighten them out, and I thought that the best way to deal with that would be through a letter... which she agreed with. She was cordial, nice even... I told her what i'd been up to, that I had a bunch of visitors in town... my voice was a bit horse so I apologized and she accused me, in a jokey way of going to all the 'sceney' clubs in Hollywood too much... (this always annoyed her) I told her that actually, i've retired from the 'scene' and have been focusing a lot more on myself.... I told her i've been going to Valley bars, she asked which ones... I told her and she accused me of going to the sceney bars in the Valley. I laughed and said it really had nothing to do with her, to which she responded 'I know, I don't care i'm kidding'... I just looked at her and said, 'its ok, I know you care, thats natural'. Right now i'm really tanned as the weather has been great here for a few weeks, she mentioned how dark I look, i've been working out, my skin has cleared up so, I dressed smartly so I guess I looked pretty good. The way she was looking in my eyes was the way she used to do when we were together... deep. Then her colleague came up and started to chat to me (I know most of them as I used to go there quite a lot when we were together), and asked me what I had been up to. I made it clear that I had been having fun... but then she started to talk to another colleague... this went on for about 10 minutes until I thought... 'lets not look needy, and just leave'... so I said goodbye to the guy, the guy she was talking with and to her...I put my hand out, she went to 'shake it' so I pulled her in for a hug... she whispered that she would read my letter. Honestly, I have no expectation from the letter... it basically said that she had things twisted and that she does know the real me, and that it hurt me thinking otherwise. I'm so fed up with playing text games etc that I thought that the best option would be to go and see her, and see what kind of reaction she had from physically seeing me. I could tell that the physical attraction is there still for both of us, and honestly, I didn't want to leave.. but I knew that I had to... I know that i'm on a high from seeing her and i'm waiting for the crash to set in, but i'm glad I did it. What I said to her in that letter, relieves my mind, as it sets it straight, and let me say what I had to say in an unemotional 'reunion' kind of way. Let the mind slaughter begin...
Excellent Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 I think you handeled it well. I sort of did the same thing, but our talk face to face ended with her getting mad So i wrote her an e-mail, because she wouldn't let me finish talking when we met up. And i basically said everything i wanted to say, wished her well with her new bf and said she would never hear from me again, outside work. That was almost 2 weeks ago. I can tell that she is still hurt when we talk at work, but i'm done playing these mindgames. Atleast we can have a civil conversation at work now, wich is all i asked for in the e-mail. I have no intention of trying to win her back anymore, i just want to move on and be done with it all.
Author copaisking Posted May 12, 2009 Author Posted May 12, 2009 that was my way of thinking as well... get everything out that I have to, and be done with it. I didn't tell her that I wanted her back, I didn't act like I wanted her back, I acted very confident and happy...in fact, I think she's the only person in LA who doesn't think that I want her back! Honestly, against my better judgement, I would take her back... but only on my terms, with boundaries set. The ball is in her court, as CaliGuy has reiterated, ACTIONS mean so much more than words. I'm not expecting anything to happen, but I have taken her justification for finishing with me away from her... i'm done playing games... those eBooks actually pushed her further away... because of the games they tell you work. Anyways... no response from her yet...
Aldonza Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Honestly, against my better judgement, I would take her back... but only on my terms, with boundaries set. This is where I am now. I'm maintaining NC but reaching the end of the "1 month" timeframe. I'm probably not going to break NC and honestly I feel that if it's meant to be, he'll be the one who contacts me. There was a time when I feared that he'd contact me and suck me right back into where we were before. I was afraid that I wouldn't be strong enough. Now, I don't fear it. I know what I want and I'm willing to wait for it...with him or with someone else.
Author copaisking Posted May 13, 2009 Author Posted May 13, 2009 *******CRASH********* there you go... today the crash happened... wouldn't she text me/email me/call me/write me etc etc etc a million things run through my head then BLAM! It's because she doesn't want you anymore! Get it into your head... its so hard to accept, but this letter gave her the perfect opportunity to open up of she did want to do that... and she hasn't so I have to move on... I feel like i've taken one step forward and two steps back... but this letter, it was something that I HAD to do, I feel like its tied the loose ends up, and that I can go on now... knowing that there was nothing more that I could do to get her back, and i've done it with dignity, and with my head held (albeit fakely) high. I went to Six Flags Magic Mountain today, even roller coasters couldn't cheer me up... I mean... the way she looked at me yesterday, there was definitely something there... but I know her, and I know that she convinces herself that she does the right things, and makes the right decisions, even when she doesn't (her sisters call her http://www.nicolesright.com as a nicname)... shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit
Excellent Posted May 13, 2009 Posted May 13, 2009 *******CRASH********* there you go... today the crash happened... wouldn't she text me/email me/call me/write me etc etc etc a million things run through my head then BLAM! It's because she doesn't want you anymore! Get it into your head... its so hard to accept, but this letter gave her the perfect opportunity to open up of she did want to do that... and she hasn't so I have to move on... I feel like i've taken one step forward and two steps back... but this letter, it was something that I HAD to do, I feel like its tied the loose ends up, and that I can go on now... knowing that there was nothing more that I could do to get her back, and i've done it with dignity, and with my head held (albeit fakely) high. I went to Six Flags Magic Mountain today, even roller coasters couldn't cheer me up... I mean... the way she looked at me yesterday, there was definitely something there... but I know her, and I know that she convinces herself that she does the right things, and makes the right decisions, even when she doesn't (her sisters call her www.nicolesright.com as a nicname)... shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit Aye, i know how it is. They won't give you the final closure, so you have to give it to them. And as those who got dumped it shouldn't be us that do that. I did not like it anymore than you do, but it gives you the feeling of doing something right, right? And although you mean you saw something in her eyes, think about it, was that because there was something there? Or was it because you WANT something to be there? I've been there, and it does not help, nor get you anywhere. Assume nothing, don't wait for anything and move on. I know that you know this
Author copaisking Posted May 13, 2009 Author Posted May 13, 2009 im trying to assume nothing... I kind of can't believe that she just is so cold to just ignore it all together... I mean... come on! So frustrating... I know that 'the look' was there, but that look is there with a lot of ex girlfriends... and, unfortunately, or fortunately (whichever way you look at it), thats all she is to me now... is another ex in the pile of ex girlfriends...
Dexter Morgan Posted May 13, 2009 Posted May 13, 2009 im trying to assume nothing... I kind of can't believe that she just is so cold to just ignore it all together... I mean... come on! Thats why this should be all too easy for you. You should think of it as getting rid of a cold hearted biotch.
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