rlindzie Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 so here is the scoop,if you have read my last post about :telling the guy i met online who is in iraq about hpv [and i did tell him and he is fine with it] so at the same time [on a std dating site ]i met another guy practicly the same day. they are both excelent guys. the guy in iraq is closer to my age and comes from a similar backround [not to meantion he lives near me] and he is super sweet and we have loads in common and i love talking to him. the other guy is almost 10 years older not really into the same stuff as me but really nice and easy to talk to [and has hpv not that that is an issue here bc both r ok with me having it]. i really like the guy in iraq and now that i know he is ok with the hpv it is a green light, my problem is how do i tell the other guy that i dont wanna see him, he lives 3 hours away and is comming tmrw to see me [we made these plans a while ago befor i knew if the soldier and i would work]!!! i really have a hard time telling ppl no when it comes to this stuff so any advice? and if you feel the need to call me out for dating more than one guy plz dont thanks!
Lucky_One Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 You aren't dating more than one guy. You are meeting one guy off a dating site, and chatting with one more. You aren't dating either one of them. What's the big deal with meeting this guy? You are waiting until the very last minute to cancel long-made plans, which is pretty rude, considering you are thinking of canceling just because you think you have a better offer.
carhill Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 You kinda haveta meet them in person to be dating So, no worries, meet the guy you that you think is second best. You know that bird in the hand thing
Author rlindzie Posted April 10, 2009 Author Posted April 10, 2009 thanks i guess i just didnt wanna do the wrong thing , you kno:) and y ai kno we are not dating but i have gotten sh/t for things i didnt even say so i wanted to make sure that ppl dont go making assumptions and telling me off and it makes it easier bc i am not dating anyone, and i never want to be rude so i just had to see what ppl. would do
pollywag Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 when did you agree with the 3hr away guy to meet?
Author rlindzie Posted April 10, 2009 Author Posted April 10, 2009 i agreed about a week ago to meet this weekend, and he reseved a hotel room for himself so he didnt have to drive back sleepy so he said to cancle he would have to pay a fee, i can see him but i dont wanna kiss bc i think that would go too far
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