stephy Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 ok the love of my life well we had a falling out 20 years ago. now he got back in contact with me after all these years. my question is why? he sounds so sincere and he is so much different then back then. as am i. But what would make himw ant to contact me now? and do i let him back in
lonelypiscesguy Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 ok the love of my life well we had a falling out 20 years ago. now he got back in contact with me after all these years. my question is why? he sounds so sincere and he is so much different then back then. as am i. But what would make himw ant to contact me now? and do i let him back in Would it hurt to give it a try and see where it could go? You're obviously curious or wouldn't have posted. A lot of changes can happen in 20 years.
Jay34 Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 well he probably thinks of you as the love of his life too, if you really feel he is the love of your life and he didn't do anything horrible, i would give him a chance, there is a whole site on this phenomenon, i heard it on a radio show, lostlovers.com, good luck!!!!!
LovesHangover Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 If you have the opportunity to be friends or reunite with someone you love, then why not go for it? Playing it safe all the time is not living. Do what inspires you and celebrate that!!! I'm so happy for you, I'm crying!!! Love is beautiful, enjoy it!!! Be happy!!!
Excellent Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 20 years apart, and he still thinks about you. Thats gotta mean something, don't you think? IMO you should have a go at this, unless you are involved with someone else at the moment.
Ronni_W Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 do i let him back in If you are both single and available, why not start dating and see where it leads? Sometimes the memory that we've built/held onto is much more exciting and interesting than the reality is going to be...20 years IS a long time -- so maybe just proceed with caution until you know what's what? Hugs, and best of luck -- that WOULD be an excellent love story
Author stephy Posted April 11, 2009 Author Posted April 11, 2009 I am going to give him another try.It took me years and I mean years to get him off my mind.Then out of the blue he sends me a friends request on myspace.Said he had been looking for me for months and my page is private and you have to fill in my name he said he knew it was my page but that everytime he typed in my name it wouldnt let him thru.That is because i had a sort of stalker so i changed last name on there.Then after the stalker went bye bye i changed it back.It was the shock of my life when i seen his friend request. We been talking practically everyday since then.Back then he never told me he loved me or nothing but last week out of the blue when we was talking he just said i loved you back then i love you now and will always love you.I didnt ask him his feelings and we wasnt talking about love when he said that.Which really shocked me.Back 20 years ago both me and him was going thru a very difficult time.It was ebst that we went our seperate ways.To me its still like a dream and I wonder sometimes am i going to wake up. Thank yall for your replies and i will keep yall up to date on what happens.
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