kaisergal Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 [COLOR=#555555]Hey I had been friends with a guy for ages he'd always been a flirt and he had a fiance. 8 months down the line he started acting different towards me his behavior changed. Started talking to me more and longer on msn being more cheeky/naughty with me than normal. Emailing me more in work being more touchy like pinging my bra strap and getting quite close. Wed be sat drinking coffee and he'd move his leg to touch mine or find reasons to touch me like grabbing my hand making out he was looking at my nails. When he left the office he started texting me and signing off xxx. He would say stuff to me online like how I wasn't just any girl. Saying if we go out he'd find it hard to behave himself and that it would be more fun if we weren't friends. He said how I was his sexy little minx and kept asking me if I would say for eg go on holiday with him in the future stuff like that... He even asked me to meet him after work one night were he took me out for a posh meal paid for me and was extremely touchy. Trying to cuddle up to me. I ignored him as he had a girlfriend but he told me he met this girl wk later he dumped his fiance. I confronted him bout stringing me along and he totally denied it saying ti was all in my head and that he talks like that to all the girls - I've never seen him like that[/COLOR]
bean1 Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 Yuck... stay away from people like that. He just wanted sex from you. He's not a friend.
Treasa Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 Let me guess - this is the same guy you were asking about yesterday. I had a strong feeling that you weren't asking because you were concerned as a "friend." My advice - move on. He seems flaky and doesn't sound interested in anything long-term with you.
Author kaisergal Posted April 9, 2009 Author Posted April 9, 2009 hi i feel really hurt by what he did we went from a friendship which lasted a yr to all of the sudden trying ti on going on dates - me ignoring his advances at time hoping hed just make a move but he was waiting to go off with this girl. I feel really used What u mean by flaky
bean1 Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 hi i feel really hurt by what he did we went from a friendship which lasted a yr to all of the sudden trying ti on going on dates - me ignoring his advances at time hoping hed just make a move but he was waiting to go off with this girl. I feel really used What u mean by flaky Hon you should be counting your lucky stars that you didn't end up like these other girls. This is not a good dude.
Author kaisergal Posted April 9, 2009 Author Posted April 9, 2009 u really think so or is this one the 'one'? Im surprised shes going along with it tbh
bean1 Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 u really think so or is this one the 'one'? Im surprised shes going along with it tbh Think you shouldn't be concerned with him. Does he have a 15" gold penis or something? Why is he so great that he can be a total creeper and still have girls be interested in him?
Author kaisergal Posted April 9, 2009 Author Posted April 9, 2009 so u think hes a creep do u? I hate the way he denied everything made me feel v used and waste of my time
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