dismilla Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 I've been having a really hard time with this whole NC thing and only managed a week at the longest. Well I've had a breakthrough... I'm not suggesting other people go out and do this as it definitely won't work for everyone but it turns out the only way to get over a man in my case is to get under another one! I didn't plan to go and do this, it just kinda happened and by the time I got back to mine I felt soooooo much better. I even had the courage to finally delete the ex's number from my phone so I know I can't contact him again. Sadly I can't forget where he lives as it's just round the corner from mine and I know I have to see him at the end of the month but I'm feeling lifted mentally. I would never even think about doing something like this as it's not like me at all and I certainly wasn't expecting it to help so much! Kind of made me realise my ex isn't everything I thought he was (in more ways than one ) and I've had him up on a pedestal the whole time we were together. Don't get me wrong, I'm still completely in love with him and a part of me always will be but I know now I just have to accept it wasn't meant to be. I know it's still gonna hurt like hell when I have to see him and especially when he starts seeing someone else but I know the latter won't be for a while and by then I'll (hopefully!) have completely moved on. I just wanted to share this so those of you who are feeling at your lowest right now can see that there is more out there than our ex's. We can move on and will move on. We deserve so much better than the sh*t they put us through and when all is said and done WE will be the ones who are stronger people. They will always be the same and don't even deserve our thoughts... Keep smiling and keep strong everyone!
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