Sara Sissi Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 I am in love and I miss him very badly. Our relationship is really messy at the moment (i.e. I don't even know if we're together or not) but I can't stop dreaming of being with him forever. Have you ever been so sure, like me, of being REALLY in love? I realise now that everytime in the past when I thought I was in love, I wasn't at all... but I didn't know any better then. Now I am 100% sure!
knaveman Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 I've been 100% sure on no less than three occasions now. Good Luck.
OpenBook Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 From the School of Hard Knocks, I have learned that I can be in love with someone regardless of how he feels about me... and that really loving someone is wanting & doing what is best for him - which can include leaving him alone, and going on my merry way. Have no idea if you can use this advice or not; just throwing my two-pence in. Good luck. Being in love is a rough ride. Beyond this place, there be dragons.
Author Sara Sissi Posted April 9, 2009 Author Posted April 9, 2009 well in my case, I am sure all he wishes for is to be with me forever too. so i know his happiness means knowing i love him as much as he loves me. the problem lies exactly in the fact that he doesn't believe i want to commit to him (complicated story...). i have decided that i'm going to do all i can to prove it to him...but it's hard not to collapse. in fact, i've just cried for a good ten minutes because i miss him and can't live without him. i haven't seen him for one month now (but always been in touch) and i feel like since then i haven't been breathing air.
Monogatari Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 Someone told me once that love is flexible. I really never understood what they meant until I believe I fell in love. To this day, it is the only thing I could say that I'm 100% certain about and yet I am totally not certain at all. I don't doubt how I feel about him, I doubt time and the future. I guess what I'm trying to tell you is that you may love this person, but you may one day love another. You may even watch your love fade or become invisible. It may still exist, but in another form. Meh, I don't even know what I'm saying anymore. I hope it made some sense, though.
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