thebear08 Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 Let me tell you a little about myself. I go to an all art college and I am majoring in Video/Film/Animation. I tend to stick to small groups of people. I love comedy cant get enough of it. I was always the weird kid in high school. I tend to get fooled by girls physical attributes instead of liking their personality. I’ve never had sex, but have come very close to twice. I am very picky about having sex with the right person, but at the same time really want to just do it. To the point! So there is this girl. She is the first girl I have ever met that has ever 1. Known more about comedy than me, and 2. Possibly a lot more hilarious than I am, and I consider my self a pretty comedic fellow. The thing is, is that I don’t know how to get closer to her. She is 2 years ahead of me and will be graduating next year. We are in 3 different comedy based clubs that we each have created over the years (2 of which she made, 1 I made). She seems like a girl who has no interest in guys or girls, yet she wears makeup so she must care about how someone thinks of her. I’m pretty sure she is not a lesbian but I can’t say for sure. I’ve never met a girl like her and its really her personality that makes me like her so much. Its just so hard to get close to her and the fact that she never makes any type of suggestion that she would ever be interested in me, anyone in general makes it even harder. I guess my question is, how do I get this girl. She is so perfect and for the first time in my life I actually feel as if I could finally connect with a girl. I hunger to be with her all the time, yet I have no idea how to even engage her interest in me at all. We are friend but not great friends. I'm afraid if I show any interest in a relationship with her at all even in the slightest ill be coming on too strongly and she will push her self away from me. Which would be terrible since we all take comedy very seriously and going to each other clubs would be weird and awkward. I don’t want to ruin the friendship we have now. So if imp going to go for her, I need to do it right. If you need more information id be happy to tell you, I'm just desperate and have/know no one who has ever been in this situation.
letters Posted April 11, 2009 Posted April 11, 2009 Ask her out to coffee! Say something nice to her. Check and see if she's done anything different to her hair, if she has, tell her it's nice! Do something already!
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