SHOULD i STAY OR GO?

[jnm09]

OK..SO THiS MiGHT BE ALiTTLE LONG. HOPE YA'LL ARE READY!SO THERE'S THiS GUY iVE BEEN SEEiNG FOR 3 YEARS NOW. HES iN THE ARMY & WHEN WE MET HE HAD JUST GOT BACK FROM iRAQ FOR HiS 2 WEEK R&R. HE'S A REALLY AMZiNG GUY..EVERYTiME iM AROUND HiM..iM JUST SO HAPPY. BUT HE'S ALWAYS TELLiNG ME ONE THiNG AND DOiNG ANOTHER. LiKE..HE SAYS HE WANTS TO BE WiTH ME BUT HE' NOT READY..SO RECENTLY HE WENT HOME FOR A MONTH ON BLOCK LEAVE...AND CAME BACK WiTH A GiRLFRiEND..A CRAZY ONE AT THAT. WE HAVE BEEN THRU SO MUCH TOGETHER AND iM STARTiNG TO THiNK HE'S NOT GOiNG TO COME AROUND. HE KNOWS i LOVE HiM AND i THiNK HE USES THAT AGAiSNT ME. i JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. BECAUSE WHEN HE GOT BACK HOME..HE BROKE UP WITH HIS GIRLFRIEND AND WANTED TO START SEEING ME AGAIN. HE DOES IT ALL THE TIME!..THE LAST TIME HE HAD HIS 2 EX'S AND BROKE UP WITH THEM HE CAME RUNNING BACK TO ME. I LOVE HIM..i JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE. i CAANT SEE HIM NOT BEING IN MY LIFE..AT ALL. PLEASEE HELP =(

[Excellent]

Seems to me that you have been downgraded from girlfriend to fallback-plan if everything else fails. He's using you as a backburner, i would tell him to eff off and cut all contact. You know that this will only hurt you more and more in the long run, wich he obviously does not care about.

[belocchoc129]

I know the truth hurts, but you have to admit it anyway. He's just using you as a tool of love because he knows you're so crazy in love with him and willing to get back with him whenever he needs you. That's not love, thats just his way to satisfy his desire or fulfill his emptiness or whatever the reason is. Finally, you end up with hurting and hurting more everytime like that. I know it hurts to tell you to say goodbye to him. Please do that, please be brave once in your life. You'll really get hurt, but just one time. And time will heal your pain, you'll find another great person who understands and treasures your love. Best wishes!