When to make a move?

[championice]

Would really appreciate some advice, thanks! So I met this girl in the beginning of college, and was interested in her, however she had a boyfriend. We were kinda close in the beginning, but as the year went on I talked with her less and less. Then like a month ago, she mentioned that we never really talked anymore, so I said we should get food sometime and catchup. Then 2 weeks ago her boyfriend cheated on her so she broke up with him.

 

Since then, we’ve talked quite a lot. Recently I invited her over to study with me like at 12am because her suitemate was also with me. We didn’t really have work and was just showing each other youtube videos. Her suitemate went back at 7am and I thought she would leave too but she stayed. We ended up talking more including personal stuff all the way til 2pm (she skipped class to talk). Problem is I was stupid cause I’m just getting over someone and asked her for relationship advice so she in turn asked me also.

 

I could ask her to probably hangout with her all the time, except I get the feeling that it’s getting too friendly and I don’t know how to change that. Talk with her not everyday? She’s mentioned she’s never single for long (she’s really pretty). I’m not sure what course of action to take from here. Any advice would be awesome

[Mahatma]

At first I thought you sealed your fate in asking for relationship advice, but she returned the question ... then she made the comment about not being single for a while, which means "you better hurry up."

 

Start to ask her to eat with you and do stuff together, get more in depth conversations going, send the body language... yada yada.

 

 

Bottom line: it sounds like she gave you the green light to pursue.

[DarkestDreams]

Sounds like she enjoys your company and she might be interested. I suggest you ask her out and make sure she knows it's a date. Also, try not to bring up relationships, especially advice wise, or you're gonna end up in the friendzone.

 

She’s mentioned she’s never single for long (she’s really pretty).

 

I'd be worried about this. Is she usually not single for long periods of time because she's pretty or because she's one of those people who jump from relationship to relationship? Since you've both been hurt recently, maybe taking it slow would be best.

[somedude81]

When to make a move?

Now! Strike while the iron is hot!

[alphamale]

I’m not sure what course of action to take from here. Any advice would be awesome

you basically have two choices as you're already waaay into the friend zone:

1. make a romantic move on her and lose the friendship and her, or
   
2. don't make a move on her and keep the friendship