LakesideDream Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 Why? Is there something there that's obvious that we are all missing? Do you think this is the better forum for the thread? Try adding detail to your posts. Being cryptic will not lead to the discussion you are soliciting.
imagine Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 You feel for him. This is not good. Save yourself the effort of later love hassles.
Author ameeker Posted April 9, 2009 Author Posted April 9, 2009 I have never been married, but I feel as if I am divorced, so I am posting this here. We dated over four years and lived together less than one year. In the time we lived together we had to move 7 times and he was unemployed during most of that time. We got in a cycle of no respect-->no love-->no respect-->no love. When we applied for food stamps and he wanted to buy groceries that day, I kicked him out. During the time he was living out of a hotel, I disappeared. He thought I moved in with someone else when I had moved back home so that my parents could pull me out of poverty. Several months afterwards, I contacted him and for several months after that we talked about what actually happened so that we could get closure (we talked every two weeks or so). Then several months after that we had small talk. Then I told him we can't be friends. Then the next month after he calls me back and says he wants to be friends. Then I fly up to see him for a weekend to see how we interact face-to-face. I went to see my ex after less than a year. Things were like before everything went downhill. When I got emotional his friends sat me down and told me how he talked about me every day, especially the two weeks before I visited. They said he never mentioned anyone else in his past and that he mentioned that he would wait 10-15 years for me. I was optimistic. Then I return home. I call him Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday. Then he disappears. The times I called him he seemed happy, so it is more puzzling to me that he is unreachable now. WHY???
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