sotired Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 Is he still really controlling? How do you go all day without looking at another man? Does he expect you to look at the floor constantly? Even if the physical abuse has stopped it still doesn't give him the right to be a controlling jerk. I think the porn is a non issue at the moment. If you can't get over it, leave. There are men out there that don't look at porn. There are even more men out there that won't hit you or freak out if you happen to glance at another guy.
LostFocus Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 I just wanted to let you know that this isn't the first time that he has seen porn. This is the first time he was caught watching porn. And I am sure that this won't be the last time he will watch porn. He is only going to become more careful not to get caught.
LucreziaBorgia Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 Porn is the least of your worries. I'd say the abuse you suffer at his hands is far worse. And let me tell you - it never gets better. It always, always gets far far worse. I have to ask - why do you want to move forward in your life with a man who abuses you?
The Collector Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 I have to ask - why do you want to move forward in your life with a man who abuses you? Maybe insane jealousy and a slap to the face 'proves' he loves her.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 He slapped you then he forgave YOU?!!!! Get out. NOW! And NEVER - I mean NEVER EVER allow a man, or anyone else, to tell you WHO you can and cannot talk to, and NEVER allow a man to put his hands on you EVER AGAIN! Agreed it only gets worse not better once they lay their hands on you its a free pass to do so again when he feels the need. Now this is were you say oh hes only done it once I swear! Go a head marry him and see were you end up in 5 10 years with kiddies too boot hes a controlling manipulator trust me..
Ocean-Blue Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 You two aren't compatible. He likes porn. You don't want him to look at it. He does it behind your back anyway. Umm, yeah. Time to move on.
Lucky_One Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 Thank God that I am not meant to be with a man who hits me and who hit me because I was horrible enough to look at a man in a bar and who thankfully forgave me for my disrespectful behavior. And thank God that I can see what abuse and control is.
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