epeppino Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 I'm 23 and so is the girl i'm talking about. so, this girl is a server at a place I go often. She goes to graduate school at the same college i go to. Ive run into her a few times at school and what not...she always is really nice and we talk for a while when i see her. One night, she sits at the table with my friends and me and talks with us for a while. She says shed like to go out with us some time. None of my friends know her. The next time i was there, i was talking with her. Like i said, I had a feeling she liked me a bit in the past but wasnt sure. She gave me her number (NO i did not ask) and told me to send her a text about going out on saturday. I did text her once, she legitimately replied and said she was out of town for the weekend. I saw her later that week and had a few drinks with her over maybe a 30 minute conversation. She then made it very clear wanted to go out with us again that saturday(haha once again, NO i did not ask her to go) and for me to message her to go. I sent her a text as she asked me to. This time, I got no response at all. No response from a girl who gives you her number and tells you to text her for a specific outing? does that make any sense? besides, even if she doesnt like me specifically and wants to hang with my group...why ignore the message? right? i will be seeing her later this week. I'm curious to see what she says. just wondering what you guys thought about this.
EllieBean Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 Confusing... maybe she met someone else in the meantime and isn't interested in you and/or your friends any more? Or maybe she was using you to get to one of your friends, and has backed off because you seem a bit too keen? If she liked you and was interested in you, she wouldn't ignore your texts... unless her phone is broken or lost or something. When you see her, just say you texted and were wondering whether she received it...
Author epeppino Posted April 8, 2009 Author Posted April 8, 2009 well, she ignored one text. She replied to the first one in minutes. I just don't see how she can lose interest in me/my friends in one day. I suppose it's possible. I wonder now if she did ever get the message. You bring up a good point.
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