Any suggestions?? He Lied to Me

[Lizzie60]

Lizzie - I did ask him to wear one initially. He couldnt. and I trusted him. please get beyond this.

 

 

Huh.. he couldn't .. come on now.. he couldn't..

 

You trusted him.. and now you're blaming him for being irresponsible to not wear a condom..

[Canada_Girl]

Thanks - I will ALWAYS insist on a condom in the future. Now that I know that I cant always believe what a person says.

 

The main issue here is that he lied to me.

 

However, I think honestly I am getting tired of discussing this. lol Which is probably a good thing.

[alphamale]

The main issue here is that he lied to me.

so? people lie all the time...i'm sure you lied to him on occasion

 

However, I think honestly I am getting tired of discussing this.

[Canada_Girl]

There is a difference between major and minor lies.

[alphamale]

There is a difference between major and minor lies.

indeed

 

i think you should stick around, you'll fit in well

[Canada_Girl]

Hmm thanx ... I will keep it in mind. :-)

[Star Gazer]

I think the issue you need to focus on isn't whether or not he lied to you, but why you chose to have unprotected sex with a man you weren't in an exclusive relationship with.

 

Honestly, if something happens (STD, pregnancy), that would be just as much your fault as it is his.

[SoulSearch_CO]

C_G - Yes, I'm positive you made a good choice. Not only did he cheat on you (if you assumed it was exclusive), but he lied about it.

 

The whole condom thing - I think both partners are equally responsible for that, so blaming him solely is a little childish. Where do you think the "No glove, no love" saying came from? I am curious, however - what reason did he give as to why he "couldn't" wear one? He sounds a little gross.