what2donowIII Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 Well first let me go back and say i was married at one time and my wife left me and it took me about 1 1/2 years to get over it. I was in a big time slump. Until i met someone in july 08. Me and her hit it off right away and instantly she took me out of my slump and depression and got me back to being me. Let me add that this girl had just walked out of her marriage of 10 years. So we talked and hungout and got more and more serious everyday. We are perfect for each other we are so alike and common. We moved in together after 3 months of dating. She has 3 kids i have 1 so we knew we was serious because we had 4 little ones involved. We talked about the future and getting married and even having a baby together. We did everything together and when we wasnt together we was texting each other the whole time. Well in january she broke up with me and said she wanted to go back to her ex and try to work it out for the kids. The next day she was texting me telling me she made a mistake that she missess me and loves me and knows that we our each others counter parts. Mind you i tried extra hard to keep her and the kids happy. She told me everyday how she was so lucky to have met me and i am so great to her and the kids. but then just last week she broke up with me again. She said she wants time to herself and her kids and she cant be with me anymore. She says she jumpped straight from her marriage into our relationship. She says its nothing i did she says if anything she dont deserve a guy like me. She just keeps saying she needs to get her head back on straight and that she is always good at Messing up a good thing. Well she doesnt call me very much or text me at all i have barly talked to her in the past week. I am so lost again. im back into my depression mode i dont know what to do. I know we belong together. We r each others destiny i know that. I have never felt this way about someone before. I didnt even love my ex wife as much as i love this girl. What confuses me too is everything seemd great all the up too she broke up with me last week. The day before she was still saying how we are meant for each other and talking about getting married and having a baby. How did all that change so fast? What goes through womens minds? How do i walk away and be happy again?
Ilovehim Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 its not what goes through a womens minds, men do this too...i cant tell u what is goin on in her mind, only she can...and i cant tell u whether u were a rebound or whether she really loved you, whether she still does love u and etc...give it a week or so before talking to her and try to see what is going on...then take it from there...i wish u the best...keep posting here.
Author what2donowIII Posted April 7, 2009 Author Posted April 7, 2009 i know i just have to give it time and take it day by day and see where it goes.. I also knw the worst thing i can do is push. i have to just sit back and let her do all the contacting. it is just so hard to do. its hard to fight not to call her or text her. i miss her so much im hurt so bad
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