partlythere Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 Hey! I have been trying to find a thread on this and I apologise if there are lots... if there are, please direct me to where they are. I'd like some help with this issue. I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 25. We have been together five years. For the past year or so we have been talking about moving in together-- that is, i suggest it and he gives me all the reasons why he doesn't want to do it. Logically, it's crazy that I don't move in. reasons such as-i'm there all the time, he really needs another housemate, etc etc... I know why they are all irrelevant because I want him to live with me because he loves me and we are ready to take that step... but it's funny, that's the only reason he HASN'T given for us doing it! I just don't understand why he doesn't want to live with me. I mean, if he wants out of the relationship, he should say so. But he seems happy. He likes having me stay at his house most nights of the week. I have no problem with his independence but I am getting to the stage now where I am feeling like I have wasted five years. We have plans for the future-- we both want to travel and we have a sketchy idea of where we want to go with that. However, his education will keep him at home for another two years. I feel like of his reason "we'll do all this stuff later" is just a way to buy time! We both have major holidays planned in the next few months. I won't be seeing him for about two months. Should I break up with him before we go on holiday? After? Help please!!
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