My life and its baggage

[Ayla]

OK - that is your decision - but the longer you wait the further your ex will walk away and the harder it will be to get her love back.

 

In regards to your current gf - not sure what country you are in - but I am pretty sure that in any western country - you have legal rights. So no one can keep you away from your son. Not unless the court says so....so maybe whilst you think it is over - talk to a legal person as well. Just so you can be on the right page.

 

If your current gf is going to keep a father away from a child for no good reason - then she is only punishing the child...and that is not fair. It is using the kid as a pawn and it will only damage him.

 

I hope it works out for you, and that you become a better person from this. Hopefully you will also never ever cheat on a gf again...it is just too much heartache

[Mr Regrets]

A quick update and I'm really confused...Ok that weekend I did the NC thing and it hurt like hell. But I made it through it. So when Monday came..I get a text stating was I alright? from my side. I texted back and said no I wasn't but I will get through this. So I asked her how was she feeling? She said ok.

 

Now the next night I went and stayed with one of my buddies for the night. All of a sudden at 11pm I get a call from my side..I didnt answer she called back.I still didnt answer. So she went crazy texting me,leaving vm's even stopping by my house to see if I was there. I was like What the hell is going on??? She basically apoligized for being so mean and she knows I would probably no want her back again.

 

Ofcourse I'm riding high on the hog now..I feel a big relief that she feels like this, but I dont let her know. Since I got my power back I played the hard role by being uninterested.

It has been going good for about a week or two and then we hit another brick wall.

 

You see I basically told my girlfriend that we need to end it. Due to me being the person I am and she needs someone that will appreciate her more.

 

Later that night I stopped over my sides house and we talked. A couple of hours later I told her that I basically broke it off with my girlfriend.

I was expecting a big hug and and kisses but all I got was a really??

I said yeah, dont you beleive me? She was like kinda.

 

I'm like damn...This is what you have been wanting and now you got it and you dont care???

 

I'm really confused here. Also to add insult to injury she lied to me the other niight about getting her cousin to notarize a car title for me.

I told her so you're lying now???

 

When I confronted her about the lie she told me that I lied to her in the past. So big deal. But before this she would not answer my phone calls or texts.Almost like she was getting me back for that time I did it to her.

 

 

I was going to go by her house after I got off work that same night. So I toldher to leave the door open. But I decided not to go and she texted me this morning saying that she left the door open and I didnt show up. I told her that I changed my mind. She said you knew you were not coming in the first place. Which was true.

 

We have not spoke since those texts this morning..I dont plan on contacting her unless she makes the first move..I do love this girl.Man I wish she would do right...What is the deal..Is she playing games or what??

 

I have been feeling bad all day behind this and this emotional roller coaster is hell..