Cathryn Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 Six months ago my boyfriend of 3 years and I had a mutual break up. We still spoke everyday and told each other I love you. It was always in the cards that we were going to get back, we just needed a break and decided tio always stay best friends. How ever two moths on he started dating his room mate while still telling me he loved me. This girl tortured me, pulling all sorts of stunts trying to get me out of his life. Eventually he stopped telling me he loved me but we still spoke every single day and saw each other a few times a week. In mid january he broke up with his girlfriend and kicked her out as she couldn't accept that we were friends and was sending me abusive msgs every second day. As soon as they broke up we started talking alot more and seeing each other at least five days a week. We have now been doing this for three months, I'm am still crazy about this guy and he knows I want to get back together but he doesn't right now. His other ex is still torturing me on her days off she sends me msgs saying to stay out of her and her boyfriends life she has even sent photos of a pregnancy test trying to say she is pregnant and they are keeping the baby. I keep telling my ex we can't stay best friends because every time I hear from her or she pulls some stunt I get hurt cuz im reminded that he stopped loving me and stopped wanting me for someone so terrible that he was with for two months. I can't handle hime being out of my life and I love spending time with him cuz our relationship now is much better than our last year together we are having fun and hanging out alot more. Are things going to get easier or am I just an idiot for hoping?
carhill Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 They don't get Springer in Caboolture Seriously, OP, give yourself a breather. I know all this seems like the world, but there is so much more to life.
Author Cathryn Posted April 7, 2009 Author Posted April 7, 2009 No, No Jerry round here. We have tried to do the no contact thing several times but the longest we have lasted is 23 hours and thats him contacting me. it just seems impossible I want no contact so he can work out if he misses me or is just fine. I need him to tell me he doesn't want me anymore so I can move on but he said he isn't ready to do that... giving me hope he still wants me. Everytime now I mention we can't stay friend he just tells me to shut up or says it isnt gonna make things better for either of us. Grrrr
EmperorR Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 And this is why you don't remain friends witha n ex when there are still emotions.
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