Levithon Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 allright me and this woman were going out not for all that long but we had known each other from before and then we found out that she was pregnant, *with my child* and then she started getting people in her ear about me and these are people that literally don't even know me and know nuthing about me except just a few things. we are broken up now because she says that she just doesn't think that it will work when i absolutley know that it has everything to do with the unfair biasing towards me, and she also just got together with her ex from 3 years ago who while we were still going out would text her while i was laying with her in bed for 4 hours at a time confessing his love for her and all that after he was told that she was pregnant and with my child and going out with me. what has been getting put in her ear, and i'm sure there is a tons that i don't know about but these couple things i know about for sure, is that like her mom and this kid who might i add really is a kid only 23 while we are both 28, but things like "He doesn't even have a job!" and other things to that aspect. but what they fail to relize is that i JUST got out of the military a few months ago and am collecting unemployment while i look for a job that will pay more than my unemployment benifits and while i'm waiting to start school in the fall with my G.I. bill. i mean yes i'm unemployed but i have income, infact my unemployment benifits are quite large, i have a plan, i'm not a deadbeat i'm motivated, and for anyone who was in the military or currently is reading this, i went from E-1 to E-5 in the navy in a locked down creo 3 rate in 3 years just to give an idea at how motivated a person i am, i mean honestly most people don't make e-5 ever. i get the feeling that subconciously she broke up with me and is with him because of fears of security and whatnot, she has allready voiced her fears on raising a child alone, which would NEVER happen. i'm a combat vet that sheds tears everytime i begin to think about my unborn child. but he does have a job and she is getting tons of input from people who don't know me. i mean its so bad now from all these people in her ear that she has started to have bad dreams about me, like me coming in at night and stabbing her and stuff and they are affecting her because she said that she has even started not leaving the extra key outside, when the whole reason why its out there is so that if she needs help or has an emergency of any kind i can get in there to be by her side and help her. seriously i am not a scary person at all either i never raise my voice i'm kind gentle every child or animal i have ever come in contact with loves me, i'm just a little teddy bear inside so i don't know whats going on with this. what do i do i am completly lost i have never loved anyone before and i love this women i mean i told her even before we found out that she was pregnant that i loved her. and i have never told a single soul that ever.
Donovan Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 bro, all women want that extra security. I have my own cash too but i went thru a period of my life where i was hurting for dough but i bounced back better than ever. all of my exes let people get in their ear about me, but in the end, karma is real. she's gon get all back she's done to u. I know it's gon be hard to ignore her and you're probably thinking you'll never find anyone like her again but in the end, she'll miss you more than u miss her when your life gets on track. some people just have no patience and are selfish. mentally, she was weak and never loved you fully. anytime u let someone influence the way YOU feel about someone you supposedly love, then you aren't truly in love with then anyway. EVERY girl i've been with had friends that didn't like me, but I don't fight for time between my girl and her friends, cuz in the end, they can have her, cuz i feel i'm important.
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