Sublime333 Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 I was very open with my ex about female stuff, although I'm not sure all guys are comfortable with the subject. I'm hanging out with this guy I've seen for only a few weeks tomorrow and lately I've stayed the night at his place. I'm due to get my period in about 2 or 3 days, but I'm afraid of fooling around in case it comes early. The guy is 25 so he SHOULD be okay to talk about the subject. Although I'm beginning to doubt the maturity of some (not all!) guys these days. What would you do if you were still in the beginning stages of dating a guy? Avoid fooling around all together and call it an early night or just go have fun and warn him in advance? Thanx!
Moccasin Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 I would just have my fun but warn him in advance. Just say... hey it's all good if we flirt and fool around but it's close to woman nature time.
Author Sublime333 Posted April 7, 2009 Author Posted April 7, 2009 Fabulous. That's the answer I wanted to hear!
little luver Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 I'd save fooling around for a day when I could fool around at my BEST, personally. It's much more fun if you don't have to worry about PMS getting in the way! LOL! And I think you're crazy but awesome, because you've only known this guy for weeks and you're living with him. That's bold. Haha! Take care.
xpaperxcutx Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 I'd make other plans for myself until everything's over. If it's a new guy I wouldn't want him to see me at my worst, with stomach cramps and all. If he's reasonable and understanding, we can get on shacking afterwards.
Cherished Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 I'd save fooling around for a day when I could fool around at my BEST, personally. It's much more fun if you don't have to worry about PMS getting in the way! LOL! And I think you're crazy but awesome, because you've only known this guy for weeks and you're living with him. That's bold. Haha! Take care. she didn't say she was living with him, just stayed the night.
samspade Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 Just let him know the Red Army is in town beforehand. Honestly, if a guy can't handle that, he's got some adjusting to do.
SoulSearch_CO Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 I don't see why it should be a big deal. I think it's a good time to test his maturity level. Because honestly, if a guy in his mid-20's freaks about a girl's period he never made it out of Jr High. I'd just let the guy know and see how he feels about it. I personally don't really like fooling around during that time because I get bad cramps AND I'm pretty moody.
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