twicebitten Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 Ok, re-cap ... last week I got GREAT news about my upcoming children's book (posted here) ... BUT THEN ... two days later ... OMG!! I've not been on boards due to last weeks HORRIBLE turn-of-events!!! K, day after my book spreads came out ... my ex found out & then starting sending me texts ... calling SCREAMING at me (I hung up) ... he left a message on my machine threatening to send VERY personal info & some posts about him on a don't date him site (that I did not post) to ALL my contacts ... IE: Literary agent ... publishers, etc.,!! I was terrified so my GF took me to the PD & I filed a report! They call him & warn him not to contact me further, etc., Well, I wake up next morn to an email from said agent (I gave her a heads-up the night before) saying she received two emails & was forwarding them to me for PD & she'll delete them! OMG ... he literally SMEARED me ... saying I was not fit to be around CHILDREN (I'm an author) & then continued to write personal stuff (of sexual-nature) between us, sprinkled with innuendos & lies!! It's all so HUMILIATING!!! So went back to PD next day .. they were NOT happy that this continued (after they called him) so they filed a formal complaint, etc., Today the Detective called to say that he's calling him again today to give him last warning!! If there is anymore contact to ANYONE associated with me that he'll be arrested! I do feel a bit better, however I so fear that the "other shoe will drop"!? Meaning my publisher will receive this total CRAP email from the PR, marketing dept or something & I'll look like an idiot for having associated with someone like this!!!?? Do you think this kind of thing could potentially tarnish my GOOd rep!?? Anyway ... I could use some encouragement/support right now!! THANK YOU all for your valuable input(s)!! XO - TB -
danb Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 I would hope a business wouldn't pay much attention to a letter from a disgruntled ex bf, they certainly wouldn't spread it. They could likely get in legal trouble for it and so could your ex bf. It was so incredibly immature of him, what did you do to this guy? lol j/k I hope everything works out for you.
Author twicebitten Posted April 7, 2009 Author Posted April 7, 2009 ... Dan for your response!! YES, it's VERY immature of him!! But he knew/knows how important my upcoming career is to me & so that's why he "hit-me-where-it-hurts-the-most!!" Along with other things he's bitter about ... he is blaming ME for sending some link/text to his ex-wife's cell to a dating-site he's mentioned on ... I do NOT know the woman and/or her phone #!! WOW, is all I can say about the man (turned BOY) that I fell-in-love with & felt HE was almost like my PROTECTOR!!?? But now I need protection FROM him ... he's got the ugliest mean-streak I've ever encountered!! As much as I despise what he's done & is doing to me I am STILL finding myself missing/remembering his old sweet-side & I HATE that I can even fathom those thoughts!!! UGH!!! ANYONE else that can lend advice, etc., or similar experiences!??? THANK YOU!! XO - Twicebitten -
Author twicebitten Posted April 8, 2009 Author Posted April 8, 2009 ANYONE else have any similar pyscho-drama after a bad-breakup!??? Tomorrows my B-day & instead of turning ...4?? ... I feel as if Im turning 17 (and NOT in a good way)!!! Maybe a good reason to NEVER date someone 10 years my jumior again ... I don't know!??? This S**T is just insanity!! PLEASE send any encouragement, etc., ... I could use SOME!! Thank you all! XO -TB -
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