StrikeFreedom Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 Kay... I think it's about time I told her how I feel. If things don't work out then I'll tell her we need to start having NC with each other for a long as it takes. She's my good friend at the momment but I simply cannot stand the way I feel knowing we're not together. I would stay in the friendship because I love her and I respect her feelings of possibly not wanting to be with but I myself cannot handle the way I feel so I'm hoping she'll understand. Over 3 years now.... this has to end.
Lippy2 Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 If she loves and respects you, she will understand. I feel for you!!
Peter_pan Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 wow thats mad, let us know what happens; good luck
rakula Posted April 7, 2009 Posted April 7, 2009 Kay... I think it's about time I told her how I feel. If things don't work out then I'll tell her we need to start having NC with each other for a long as it takes. She's my good friend at the momment but I simply cannot stand the way I feel knowing we're not together. I would stay in the friendship because I love her and I respect her feelings of possibly not wanting to be with but I myself cannot handle the way I feel so I'm hoping she'll understand. Over 3 years now.... this has to end. Yeah. Do it for sure man. I was in the same situation but I had to tell her even though she was going with this guy. I know it seems wrong but I did it for me if anything so I can get the monkey off my back. It's hard to be something you are not if you are always hiding it. Once it's out you guys can have the proper relationship based on your feelings. If it's weird in the beginning it will pass. It's part of the whole process. Good luck and let us know how it goes for you.
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