koolaunt Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 Hi, I have been married for almost 2yrs. He has 2 boys (10,7). I had asked him prior to our marraige if he wanted at lease one more child and he said ofcourse. It has been two yrs. I have begged, cried and he says he is happy with his own I am almost 40 and I have no time to waste. I wake up at 5am every day I make breakfast, their lunch and dinner ( I work FT). He lavishes his kids with $1000 video games monthly and does not even have any money left to fix his smile or buy himself nice clothes. I support myself solely and have never asked for anything except to be loved and respected. I cook, clean, scrub toilets and do laundry. I am so kind to the kids, I spoil them rotten. They are very rude, spoiled and very disrespectful. Even at school they are called little brats. My husband has constantly verbal abused me by threatning to divorce me. I lost count. I am a fairly attractive woman and he is constantly trying to put down. I am almost under weight and claims I am fat. He is critical of not only my looks, but even if I open my mouth. Yesterday I begged him not to threaten to divorce me, and he said he will think about it, but I have to do what he says. I woke up this morning, looked in the mirror and wrote him a nice respectful letter that I am now ready to end this hell & slaving marriage. I am any mans dream. I massage him, bathe him, straighten his hair, remove his back hair and do facial treatment, and even pedicures! He is served hand and foot but he truly deserves nothing! I am ready to move on to better things!
lostsoulmate Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 Then do it. You deserve better. No person (notice I didn't say woman, I said person) should be treated this way! Get out now! Be true to yourself. If you want little ones, find someone who loves you and wants the same things as you!
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