browneyes99 Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 So I've known this guy for years but we never really talked or hung out until a few months ago.. We have been hanging out almost everyday and he keeps saying how much he likes me and wants to be with me..The problem is that before we started hanging out, I've seen him flirt like crazy and tell other girls how much he likes them..and he was doing this to them all at the same time... Since we started hanging out, I havn't come across or heard anything about him trying to hook up with other girls but it is really bothering me because I don't know if I could ever date him because of that.. I havn't slept with him yet and I don't plan to anytime soon until I know he's serious because I'll probably be a **** nchuck.... Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated! Thanks!
EllieBean Posted April 8, 2009 Posted April 8, 2009 I don't think you should necessarily assume he's a player, but don't jump in with both feet either. Suss him out, date him for a while, make sure he is serious and isn't just flirting before you sleep with him. If he isn't getting easy sex, you'll quickly find out if he's a player, because when he realises he can't play you he'll move on. Or who knows, he might genuinely like you! Only time will tell...
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