IcemanJB Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 Some of you are probably going to be very upset with me lol. I met my ex for coffee yesterday *dodges flying objects*. I merely mentioned to her a week ago that we should catch up, but she pretty much pursued it and set up when. There's no avoiding it: it went very well. I walked in the door, and she jumped up and hugged me. Before yesterday I hadn't seen her since November, which was my choice in order to get over her. She has changed in good ways; she seems more confident than she used to be, more driven, etc. She's very focused on her schoolwork. And the thing that was most shocking/impressive to me was when she mentioned she had only gone out drinking like once or twice since January. I told her straight up that I (jokingly) didn't believe her, since she was going out 2-3 times a week when we were dating (I never once brought up our relationship though). I think that was one of the reasons for the split too. The background info on us is sort of important here, so read my first post of this thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t184594/ Anyways, there's definitely still something there. I remember just saying calmly: "you changed your hair. I like it." I hardly ever give compliments, and only do when I really mean something. She turned red, kept saying thanks, playing with her hair...haha it was really cute. There was a good deal of flirting and challenging each other. Out of the blue I invited her to go skydiving in June with some friends and she agreed right away. We talked for about 45 minutes, then went for a walk towards her friend's house afterwards. Hugged a couple times and I kissed her on the cheek as we were saying bye, which she liked. She did mention a few times that she had "nothing to do today or tomorrow" towards the end of our meeting. I honestly have no idea what to do. I still feel as if the ball is in her court, and there might not be anything I can do. I've thrown around the idea of asking her to a movie tonight since we talked about that a bit. What would the brain trust of LS have to say about this situation? Should I just sit on my hands, or be more forward? I've never been this split on what to do before...
missdependant Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 *Throws chair* Jk.. Wait (wait, wait, wait!) for her to call you or text and ask what you're up to. :-) Then say "nothing, do you want to catch a movie?"
Author IcemanJB Posted April 6, 2009 Author Posted April 6, 2009 ^^^ That's sort of what I was leaning towards...
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