samprez Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 Sorry those of you who have seen me post. I've been good, staying away but I have one more question. For those that have cheated, how do you feel about your affair partner now that the affair is over? For me, I found that going through IC has helped me a great deal and I now find the thought of her repugnant. I own my half of the relationship, so I've been pretty hard on myself for allowing this to happen. However, when I think of "her" I have only negative thoughts. I think of her behavior and what she said and I'm frankly disgusted. I've also been able to turn off thoughts of her. But like I said, I'd like to know what people think of their partners now that they are done with the relationship.
LadyDi Posted April 10, 2009 Posted April 10, 2009 I still like the guy, still care for him. He doesn't repulse me. Life is simply much easier now that all the drama is over. No more, no less.
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