Monty36 Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 So I'm having a very time dealing with this dilemma. my ex broke up with me about a month ago but we were able to remain friends ( we were friends for three years prior to the relationship) she told me that she will always love me with all her heart but that she wants to stay single for the rest of high school because its less stressful, which i fully understood but still took pretty hard because i really loved her. I know that given our history ( we were on off during that three year friendship phase) their is a good chance we'll get back together in the future but as of right now we don't talk or hang out as much and shes back into going out and partying and i know she's been hanging out with other guys a lot too. basically shes just being single again. Now heres my problem. one of her ex-friends was there to help me get through our breakup and shes really been there for me when i needed someone. we've been talking and hanging out a lot and im starting to like her:confused:. What i'm afraid of though is that if anything were to happen between us (even just some little fling) it would hurt my chances with my ex. i still love my ex and want to be with her so should i just avoid this other girl?
LoveUrselfFirst Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 Ummm yeah. Regardless if they are ex-friends, going out with her old friend will not only ruin the chances of you two getting back together (if that happens), but more problems will surface between her and her ex-friend. There is a fine line someone draws about hooking up with your ex's friend. One she will look at you with disgust because there are other girls in the world, why would you deal with someone she knew and to me that is a low blow. Give it time between you and your ex and see if you two can get back together.
Thomas X Forever Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 First and foremost, it's most likely over with you and your ex. In fact, I'm betting more than anything that it is. You guys will not get back together (or work out). Mark my words, and accept it. Secondly, I could hit you so hard for trying to go for one of her friends. I'd give you a long speech about how f'd up that is, but I also think my ex's friend is cute as hell so I'm gunna shut up.
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