JoboF4i Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 So my girlfriend of 5 months decided that we needed to take a break because she didnt have time for a relationship and felt that she couldnt give the time she wanted to be with me. Recently she has been doing poorly in school and has recently switched her major and considered dropping out and going back home, along with financial issues, work issues, and other things. Also she recently was accepted for a semester internship down in florida. Now the reason im confused, is that a week before this happend we took a vacation and everything was spectacular and i had never seen her so happy with me (told me she loved me for the first time!). But now a week later she says that she wants a clean break until the end of school and hardly calls/texts me anymore. Ive tried to keep my distance, but its absolutely terrible and its ripping me apart. How can she just change her attitude so quick? Also i work during summers away from home and we recently discussed staying together during this and that we wanted it...but now shes saying she cant tell me if were going to continue dating when school is done. I dont know what to do....i have no choice but to wait out the next couple weeks. She stresses that its NOT because she doesnt want to be with me but i cant see any other reason? Someone evaluate whether i should consider it over or not and what i should do please...
Thomas X Forever Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 Who know's what is really going on in her head. Clearly she's stressed out beyond belief. So it's understandable that she wants some space apart. Probably has nothing to do with you my friend. The best thing to do, in my opinion? Tell her you care about her a lot, and you miss her, and you want to continue things soon. Then tell her you won't be bothering her now. Then cut off all contact 100%. It could be that once she said she loved you, it scared her away.
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