smile_through_tears Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 Im talking about myself unfortunately... Who have I become?? Someone who is constantly thinking about an ex who is no longer in my life. Worst of all is the way I feel inside, like I lost my soul-mate and life has proven to me it is hard for me to like someone..im built this way i guess, picky when it comes to mates.. Yet I check this website all the time, reading posts from people, asking for advice...talking to my friends, even talking to myself to MOVE ON!!! MOVE ON MOVE ON MOVE ONE!!! HE OBVIOUSLY HAS!!!!! Seriously I love him as much as always, it has been what?? 7 or 8 months and it stillllll feels like it just happened yesterday!!!!!!!!! Im so sick of alwaysss complaining about the same thing but it has freaking torn me up inside...WHAT DO I DO???? HOW DO I GO ABOUT FINDING A THERAPIST OR PSYCHOLOGIST WITHOUT PAYING TOO MUCH OR PAYING JUST A LITTLE??? Honestly, I cannot take any more of this situation...i swear it feels like i will never let go..i feel like even with someone else feelings of my ex will always linger....i have no idea why i feel so strongly about this and what is wrong with me but this is ASERIOUSLY starting to bother me...i want to be one of those strong people who go on with their life and dont RUIN themselves and be depressed for so long because their partner left them...i know i loved this guy with all my heart but he didnt love me sooo i need to move on... WHAT CAN I DO??? WHERE DO I START?? Before i go crazy!!
LoveUrselfFirst Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 "I want to be one of those strong people who go on with their life and dont RUIN themselves and be depressed for so long because their partner left them...i know i loved this guy with all my heart but he didnt love me sooo i need to move on..." AND YOU WILL...regardless if it's been 8 months, it shows how much you loved him, but did he really care enough or loved you enough to even see how you were doing? If he hasn't, than why should you care? I think in order to keep your mindset away from your ex, like I tell everyone else keep yourself busy. If you like to read novels, go back to that, drawing, dancing, going out with your girlfriends....than do it. Trust me when I say that you will get back to the norm again once you are busy. Also if you have things to remember him by, throw them out. I don't care if he bought you a shirt, throw it out. If he bought you jewelry, sell it and use that money on yourself. Catch my drift? In time you will move on. Until than when you feel like the memories are coming back....write back on this board and vent.
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