keepin_it_real Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 Found out about the wife's affair last part of last year. Tried counseling, seemed to go OK. Apparently wife couldn't understand "no contact" with this other fellow, though. Long story short, I filed for divorce. We're nearly through it - everything's been going as well as can be expected. House is for sale. She's moved out, trying to stay cordial with one another. In agreement on separation of all the stuff. Money's OK. Things are working out. Decree in the next week or so from the way our lawyer talks. House is looking pretty empty, she took most of the wall stuff. I'm going to get through this, have got to be strong. I didn't file for divorce because I was a little mad that day, I filed for divorce after months of thought, years of her neglect of our vows, and out of respect for myself. This too shall pass. I still love her, always will - I just can't be married to her. Needed to write this down - hope everyone had a nice weekend.
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