alex434 Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 So i've known this girl for about 4 years. Before when we first met we went out a few times and it turned out that I liked her and she liked me but i was too scared to ask her out so she thought i was playing games ect. and it never went from that. Here we are years later and we are talking again. I like her and she likes me but im stuck again im afraid to make a move. We are pretty comfortable around eachother I can be myself around her and same for her too. But it seems that we are so comfortable that it might be wierd if i make a move? I told her i wanted to and she doesnt mind or seem wierded out by it.. So my question is... when would seem like a good time to make a move? anyone have any ways i can tell if she is waiting for me to make a move, ect.?
Lucky555 Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 just ask her if she would like to go out sometime. THATS ALL YOU HAVE TO DO! Seriously she is probably waiting for you to FINALLY MAKE A MOVE! She is probably not going to say anything because she wants you to ASK HER OUT. DO IT.
blue_eyes88 Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 I agree with Lucky, ask her out to dinner and a movie with just the two of you. Make sure she knows its a date.
voldigicam Posted April 6, 2009 Posted April 6, 2009 If you're really comfortable, just ask her over, feed her, sit on the couch, follow normal snuggle - kiss - screw rules. She knows you already, so no real preliminaries required. I've invited girls for dinner that I hardly knew. Going out is a pain from way out in the boonies and I cook better than most places. Where are you going to get fresh bourbon glazed salmon around here? One of the girls kept coming back, so I kept her.
Author alex434 Posted April 6, 2009 Author Posted April 6, 2009 lol well i mean. We already do that.. last friday we went to the movies and saw I love you, man ( which was very funny ) she wouldnt let me pay for the tickets as a matter of fact she ran in front of me and paid for the tickets ( she always trys to do this ) Then we went to dinner, i paid for that because i snatched the bill from the waitress lol...bu then she tipped the waitress and wouldnt let me do it. Afterwords we went down to pennslanding ( dont know if any of you are familiar ) But i never made a move at al... I asked her to hang out this saturday and i said " ok it's a date then " and she laughed so maybe she is waiting for me to make a move? She's a great friend I've known her for about 4 years so i dont want to make a move and ruin things if that's not what she wants.
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