twistofcain Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 Before I dated my ex for three and a half years, we were best friends for six months. Then she fell in love with me. Then after 2 and a half years, she fell out of love with me. We remained very very close, talked every day and after a month she fell back in love with me. Now recently she has fallen out of love once again but is not ready to be friends again. She wants to eventually but not right now. (I give it about a month because I know she is very serious about wanting to speak to me again.) What are the possibilities of this just happening all over again? Do you think if we become close she can fall in love with me AGAIN? I really think so but Im trying to be realistic here.
sara82 Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 It sounds like she just doesnt know what she wants. I personally have no idea how someone can fall in and out of love so easily, I'd say to just go NC and see what its like for her to really live with out you and not have her at your beckon call whenever she feels she wants to "fall back in love with you" Who knows...maybe with NC she'll figure out what she wants, whether she wants to pursue a relationship with you.....or move on to someone else
carhill Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 Wafflers are not relationship material. Date someone else
boldjack Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 True romantic connection is not like a revolving door, or walk/don't walk sign. You need to find a more mature gf.
Author twistofcain Posted April 5, 2009 Author Posted April 5, 2009 I wish it was that easy! Im so in love with her and I am determined to make things work. I only want this one more chance, third times the charm they say! What I am asking though is if every time she gets close to me she falls back in love, do you think it could work again?
Author twistofcain Posted April 5, 2009 Author Posted April 5, 2009 And the only reason I am putting up with this is because she is away at college so I completely understand why she is confused. This is her first year away from home and she is just trying to figure out who she is, you know?
carhill Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 Dude, she's not mature enough for what you want, or she's just playing you. I've been played by a few masters in my lifetime, so I know a bit about this. Once you find a mature woman to have a relationship with, you'll see exactly what we're saying here... Adding, first year college? Fugetabout it. Seriously
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