Author UCLAMike Posted April 9, 2009 Author Posted April 9, 2009 she just texted me Hi. I asked her how she's been doing since last time I saw her at church she was emotional. I told her I've been praying for her and to have a good day. Basically just ended the convo. then she says "you truly are a blessing in my life! thank you" and that she hopes to hear me play guitar for her again. I told her jokingly that it went bad last time and i usually don't play music like that for my female-friends. i told her it's a very intimate thing for me personally and that it would be awkward. then she said "but you promised you'd play for me! I'm ur #1 fan!" then I said "lol ok i'll think about it ok? I will honor my promise sometime!" then she asked "are we still on for this saturday?" It turns out the event is only 1.5 hrs long. i said "yes." I felt this was going well so I said "under 1 condition that you go watch the new pixar movie with me." then she said "ITS A DATE!" so it ended there. I'm going to give this a go 1 last time. If it turns out she was just joking or really just wanted friendship, I will drop this like a hot potato.
GorillaTheater Posted April 9, 2009 Posted April 9, 2009 Hey Mike, you might remember me as the guy who told you in a previous thread that your problem was not "whorish tendencies" on her part, but rather the fact you were the rebound guy. Now, I'm not saying that I have a better grasp on your situation than you do; you're in it, not me. But I am saying, based on previous experience with you, that you may have some difficulties seeing the reality of your situation. My perception is that you've been totally friend-zoned. I could be wrong, but I suggest you guard your heart and try not to read something into your relationship that isn't there. Because once you get friend-zoned, it's pretty damn tough to ever have any more than that.
Author UCLAMike Posted April 10, 2009 Author Posted April 10, 2009 It's official. We talked it over and i told her everything about how I felt when she bailed with the other guy. I was under the impression that we were on a date, she thought we had clear understanding that we were just friends. We were not on the same terms. I canceled out on the weekend church thing with her as well as the movies afterwards. It really sucks but I am not getting friendzoned and I have to set my own boundaries now. Time to respect myself. In fact, I deleted her # and I also blocked her on AIM. I won't be talking to her for a while.
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