Hersheys Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 This guy I was seeing for 5.5 months left me or to put it more accurately - disappeared after we had an argument. I haven't heard from him the night we parted. It's been more than a month now. I've accepted that I will never hear from him ever again. I'm done waiting and hoping for his phone call, seeing him at my doorstep. So now I'm trying to get over him. Trying to keep myself busy but to be honest I'm really having a tough time. I just feel so depressed. I don't have the energy to do things. My job is in sales so I'm expected to be happy and peppy most of the time but my goodness I just can't find any motivation and excitement to be good at it as I'm just feeling so sad all the time. I want to do well on my job but I just can't seem to pull myself together. I'm set to go back to uni in a couple of months and I'm scared that I'm going to feel this way still and I will just fail on my subjects. I keep on going back to the time when we started dating when everything seemed so easy and I never let any problem ruin my day. I was just so happy and enthusiatic to face each day! For those of you who have had their hearts broken, how did you find the motivation and enthusiasm again? Is it even possible to feel the way I did before now that I am alone? What did you do to inspire yourselves? Thanks in advance for your input and advice!!!!!
Author Hersheys Posted April 5, 2009 Author Posted April 5, 2009 Oops wrong section....reposting this in the coping section. Sorry!
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