mkpilot0 Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 My ex broak up with me 10 days a go, after 16 months living togetther. Her parents hate me, never liked me from day one. Anyway, the first 7 days she stayed in contact with me by text and phone calls. She said she love me, miss me and cant stop thinkink about me. That she wish it never happend. Two days a go, she email me how much she love me etc. But she is not ready, need more time etc. Today we talk on the phone and she said again that she was doing lots of thinkink and she wants to be alone she needs to be by her self. She wants to stay in touch as a friends, because I am very good person and she does not want to close the book on us. She wants to meet up onec a week for coffee. I dont know what to think, should I wait and hope for her to come back, or just end it? I still love her very much, I dont know what to do....
confused_2008 Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 She's not going to come back. She's going to use you as a security blanket until she finds someone new to give her attention and validation. When an ex wants to be friends after a breakup, its for their own selfish reasons. If you're such a great person and she loves you, she shouldn't have dumped you. You don't owe her anything and it will only be harder to move on if you stay 'friends'.
Author mkpilot0 Posted April 20, 2009 Author Posted April 20, 2009 ok still very confused, my exgirlfriend break up with me 25 days a go, still talking on the phone, text and see each other almost every day. she saying she miss me,love me, and I will be the one who she will be with. some days she is hot and cold. last night she tell me on the phone every day goes by, she miss me more and more, she can wait to see me on Friday, she wants to come over for dinner. today she called me after work and very basic talk, hi I am calling you, because I will be very busy tonight ( orientation new job at the bar/club) may be done by 8:30 pm and go home get to bed, has to get up early morning for work. still want to see me tomorrow after work. I am very confused, one day she can see her life with out me, she will be back very soon and next day she say I need more time, I don't want to get hurt etc. what is going on with her, why she is acting like that, also saying I know you will move on before me etc. what she is doing to me, is she want to come back or she just playing me ? last week we have been out 4 times every day. She says she love to be with me. Can anyone tell me what to do ?
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