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Actually, I have more cash than he ever did. ;)

Yes, now you do. ;)

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I'm very monogamous by nature,

So, can one be somewhat monogamous? Isn't that like being 50% pregnant, or something like that?

 

If a person told me they were very heterosexual, I could only conclude their bisexuality (occasional or otherwise). Or maybe it's just that they got whisked up to a flying saucer and "experimented" upon.

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Yes' date=' [i']now[/i] you do. ;)
Guess again...

 

Regardless, you're going to make up shyte in your head. Medication time!

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So' date=' can one be [i']somewhat[/i] monogamous? Isn't that like being 50% pregnant, or something like that?

 

If a person told me they were very heterosexual, I could only conclude their bisexuality (occasional or otherwise). Or maybe it's just that they got whisked up to a flying saucer and "experimented" upon.

 

whatevs....

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So you were saving it for your long-time crush who you've posted about before?

I was but I finally got over it. Turns out, purely by coincidence, that the nice lady who I did finally share myself with had a daughter who was friends with my female friend's daughter. Now there's some regret for ya. ;) Weird world. I told my friend about that (and who with) a year ago or so and she was a little shocked but we laughed about it anyway. I remember dropping the daughter off at her house before my GF and I went away for an alone weekend. Boy, were my palms sweating that day :D This all happened 15 years ago, at least....

 

If I hadn't had MC, she'd still be messin' with my heart today. I learned how to manage the stuff better. That's another regret, though perhaps not "romantic"; not having started MC sooner, before my love was gone. Likely could've saved our marriage. Oh, well....

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Guess again...

You're probably right. In fact, you are right. The "serious money" you were investing in the stock market as a teenager is testament to the considerable wad that daddy gave to his "princess." Congratulations are in order - you turned the silver spoon in your mouth that you were born with into a gold one! Life on easy street might lead to a constant feeling of entitlement, but it's so much better than having to build yourself up from nothing.

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If you had it to do all over again what if anything would you do differently?

 

In some cases (men) I regret letting him dictate who I am. I should have stood up for myself more.

 

I also regret the way I broke up with some of them. I wasn't very nice about it.

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You're probably right. In fact' date=' you are right. The "serious money" you were investing in the stock market as a teenager is testament to the considerable wad that daddy gave to his "princess." Congratulations are in order - you turned the silver spoon in your mouth that you were born with into a gold one! Life on easy street might lead to a constant feeling of entitlement, but it's so much better than having to build yourself up from nothing.[/quote']

What exactly is your problem, Dumbledore, magic or whatever you want to call yourself? Are you desperately envious of my life? Do you wish you had the same life? You're one sad and pathetic little man.

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whatevs....

I guess you're more of a numbers person, than a student of language. Fair enough.

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If you had it to do all over again what if anything would you do differently?

 

Relationships are usually changed by circumstances and timing - if I could've changed those factors, I would do it over again, sure.

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I don't regret having broken up with certain people, but I regret the way in which I did it - I could have been nicer and more considerate. I also regret a few bad relationships I had as a teenager - guys who were violent or cheated and I was young and naive enough to forgive them and stay in the relationship for longer than I should have done.

 

Funnily enough I don't regret my relationship with the person who hurt me more than anyone else has done - despite the pain I'm still glad to have known and loved him, to have felt something so beautiful even if I couldn't keep it.

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I guess I should regret my relationship, engagement and subsequent marriage to my ex. I don't. He was a great lay! :laugh:

 

If you didn't get burned by him you probably would not be able appreciate the guy you have now so it was a good experience in a way.

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Funnily enough I don't regret my relationship with the person who hurt me more than anyone else has done - despite the pain I'm still glad to have known and loved him, to have felt something so beautiful even if I couldn't keep it.

Wow - that is poignant.

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If you didn't get burned by him you probably would not be able appreciate the guy you have now so it was a good experience in a way.

For certain I wouldn't be with my fiancé now, if I hadn't gotten divorced... The grass is never greener for me.

 

As for appreciating him, there's no possible way I couldn't, while being single previous to marriage or after getting burned. He's really something. :love:

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Honestly, no regrets. Yeah, I did some STUPID **** for love, and got severely banged up and bruised in the process, but I was always being me. I keep learning. The best you can do is do your best, enjoy, and keep learning.

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I wish I had never gotten married. I should have just stayed cohabitating with the guy - he would have treated me better. Everything went to hell when we got married.

 

I also would have dated more - not been so scared of everybody (I was painfully shy in HS and people thought I was just a snob). And I would have kissed more guys. :)

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