Darkness7 Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 For those of you who haven't read my previous threads, my fiancee and I have been on a break for over 2 weeks now. She's had some personal issues that she wanted some time alone to sort out and then she said we can focus on our relationship without them getting in the way. I initiated NC and when I did, she started worrying that I forgot about her and stuff and began to contact me again. I kept it all neutral and didn't involve any emotions. Things were going really positively and today I noticed that she has deleted me from her Facebook. Why do you think she did that? Does that mean she's trying to cut me out of her life completely?
Ocean-Blue Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 She's really the only one that can answer that. Do you think, at this point, you two should discuss what's going on? And what are her "personal issues" about? Do they involve you?
Author Darkness7 Posted April 5, 2009 Author Posted April 5, 2009 She's really the only one that can answer that. Do you think, at this point, you two should discuss what's going on? And what are her "personal issues" about? Do they involve you? She's got a bad bout of depression at the moment and just wants to be left alone by everyone. I just don't get why she's suddenly deleted me and cutting off all contact. Whether she means it or whether it's just to provoke me and get a reaction cos I've been going NC with her.
Ocean-Blue Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 She's got a bad bout of depression at the moment and just wants to be left alone by everyone. I just don't get why she's suddenly deleted me and cutting off all contact. Whether she means it or whether it's just to provoke me and get a reaction cos I've been going NC with her. Is she being treated for this depression? Is it a medical battle, or just a "down in the dumps" sort of thing? Her deleting you off of her fb account isn't really that bad. I mean, she wanted to go NC for a while, which is what she's doing. Since you've agreed to all of this, don't worry about this. Just remind yourself that it's all part and parcel of this temporary NC.
Author Darkness7 Posted April 5, 2009 Author Posted April 5, 2009 Is she being treated for this depression? Is it a medical battle, or just a "down in the dumps" sort of thing? Her deleting you off of her fb account isn't really that bad. I mean, she wanted to go NC for a while, which is what she's doing. Since you've agreed to all of this, don't worry about this. Just remind yourself that it's all part and parcel of this temporary NC. I know she went to her gp about is once when we were still together, but she didn't want to talk about it yet at the time she'd said. I just got really worried when she deleted me, I know it's only FB for crying out loud, but I was scared she was totally cutting me out of her life without even looking back. But I'm glad you've told me it might only be her doing NC.
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