mlh5046 Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 This girl who I have known since highschool, we are seniors in college going to different schools, told me she liked me a lot, even said love. She has a bf, but she has said to me that her and her bf " are doing so bad right now". I really never even bring up the subject to her at all. We were talking on a frequent basis for about 2 months but lately I have been distancing myself from her because she still didnt break up with her bf. I would never put pressure on her directly by saying that or giving an ultimatum. Heck Im sure she is confused but when she was saying all this stuff to me the one night she sounded so sure about what she felt. I never returned the full dedication of "im in love with you", but I can't do that if she still has a bf, heck Im not sure if I actually love her yet, weve only been friends to this point. We don't even go to the same school, neither do her and her current bf. She is very shy and I know it took a lot for her to tell me these things. I was really impressed but at the same time right now I don't know what she is thinking. Does she want me to tell her yes I love you too, I would date you. But I think she should have the hint if I talk to her enough that Im interested she can't be an idiot. So lets assume she is confused I guess. Am I doing the right thing now by pulling myself away and playing kind of hard to get now? Acting like I have better things to do and if you don't make a move soon maybe another girl will come take me. Instead of directly saying anything.
Mahatma Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Heck Im sure she is confused but when she was saying all this stuff to me the one night . One night she did this. She probably had just gotten in a fight. You are not doing the right or wrong thing. The right thing to do is move on. She is having problems, so she is reaching out to the next-best-thing.
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