somedude7 Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Hey folks, I've found "the one" and I'm going to propose very soon. This may seem odd, but my sweetie and I have a favorite airline that we always flew when we dated long distance. I also think the airline proposal is relatively original, unexpected and fun. So can you guys help me come up with the narrative? Here's one option: She's flying somewhere with her best friend in a few weeks. I could book myself on the same flight (without telling her). I can coordinate with her friend to make sure we don't see each other while boarding. And then I would appear out of nowhere during the flight. This would totally shock her (in a good way). But how and when would I present the ring? And how can I request the pilot or flight attendants to help me? Maybe I can ask the attendant to send her the ring box from my seat, and then creep up behind her seat while she's opening it? Please share any better ideas: specifically related to proposing on a plane! Thanks
anne1707 Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Can you make sure you are travelling first class? Tell her to treat herself to an upgrade or somehow arrange it with her friend. How about arranging some champagne as well.
Trialbyfire Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 I wouldn't recommend that you propose on a plane unless you're 1000% certain she'll accept. It could get very uncomfortable for the duration of the flight, if she's not ready to take the step.
Author somedude7 Posted April 4, 2009 Author Posted April 4, 2009 another idea: during the flight her friend gets up of the flight to use the restroom. She comes over to my seat and I walk over to her seat. My girlfriend is shocked when I come sit in the friend's seat. As she's getting over the shock that I'm on the plane, the flight attendant brings us champange and the ring. Any suggestions?
Author somedude7 Posted April 4, 2009 Author Posted April 4, 2009 I wouldn't recommend that you propose on a plane unless you're 1000% certain she'll accept. It could get very uncomfortable for the duration of the flight, if she's not ready to take the step. Yes, I'm 1000% sure she will say yes. Also - I can't get a first class upgrade .... this is on Southwest Airlines.
carhill Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 OP, read this thread and give it some thought. There are many threads on Flyertalk about in-flight proposals. I proposed in a Santa suit so I'm kind of a fan of off-beat proposal ideas. added: Hmm...wedding proposal on WN cattle-car.....well, for sure, the FA's would love it
EllieBean Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 another idea: during the flight her friend gets up of the flight to use the restroom. She comes over to my seat and I walk over to her seat. My girlfriend is shocked when I come sit in the friend's seat. As she's getting over the shock that I'm on the plane, the flight attendant brings us champange and the ring. Any suggestions? Yep, sounds good. Personally I'd be a bit disappointed by being proposed to on a plane, I'd expect something a bit more romantic and exclusive. But I suppose you know best what your gf would like...
melodymatters Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Well, I'm a sucker for the movie " wedding singer" and didn't he basically propose on the plane ? Can you get Billy idol to help you out, LOL ? I like your ideas so far, keep fine tuning and being creative and i'm sure it will be an unforgettable proposal !
EYECANDY000 Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Seems like you already have it detailed out . good luck.
Ruby Slippers Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 I think it's a very sweet idea. Will your girlfriend enjoy such a public proposal? Consider this carefully. This will be very public and, if done well (IMO), the whole plane will be in on it. If you think she'll dig it, I would totally get the flight attendants involved. Not sure if they would do it, but introducing your proposal with an announcement over the PA system would be great. I love the idea of the flight attendant delivering the ring, and then you showing up to pop the question. It would be great if you could coordinate with the person next to her -- he gets up to go to the bathroom, and you take his seat. While her head is still swimming in surprise at seeing you, the flight attendant delivers the ring with champagne, and then you propose. If you can get music -- a special song -- involved somehow for after she says yes, that would rock. Over the PA? Sounds very fun.
Ruby Slippers Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 another idea: during the flight her friend gets up of the flight to use the restroom. She comes over to my seat and I walk over to her seat. My girlfriend is shocked when I come sit in the friend's seat. As she's getting over the shock that I'm on the plane, the flight attendant brings us champange and the ring. Any suggestions? OMG, I did not even read this and said the same thing. Obviously, I think it's a great idea.
Cherished Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 I don't think this is fair because she's going on a trip with her best friend, then suddenly the trip becomes about you. Maybe your girlfriend is just looking forward to a trip with her best friend. I would just let her take her trip and when she comes back, pick her up at the airport and take her out to dinner, and propose then. What you have described sounds awfully intrusive of plans she has already made, which include a flight and trip with her friend, not you. Also, you're not supposed to change seats during flight, and 'pop up' behind someone during a flight, let's be respectful of other people on the plane, geez.
danb Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 On the return flight from trip with friend maybe? I do like the taking friends seat idea. It would be after a break of not seeing you, could make it that much better?
Cherished Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 That is so lovely of you to choose a Hollywood movie to prove your point, where it's all scripted and everyone is in la la fake land, not reality, and actors are reading off lines and heck, it's not even a real plane. However, I want the flight attendants' concern to be about the passengers' safety, not some guy popping up behind his girlfriend in the plane. I think it will be rude and intrusive, just like I said. Let your girlfriend take her trip, she doesn't want to be along during this moment and have you spoiling her trip and plane ride, trust me on that. You're not even supposed to switch seats on the plane.
EYECANDY000 Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 I don't think this is fair because she's going on a trip with her best friend, then suddenly the trip becomes about you. Maybe your girlfriend is just looking forward to a trip with her best friend. I would just let her take her trip and when she comes back, pick her up at the airport and take her out to dinner, and propose then. What you have described sounds awfully intrusive of plans she has already made, which include a flight and trip with her friend, not you. Also, you're not supposed to change seats during flight, and 'pop up' behind someone during a flight, let's be respectful of other people on the plane, geez. Although it seems a little harsh I actually agree 100%. But i guess its great to be a liitle imaginative!
somedude81 Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 That is so lovely of you to choose a Hollywood movie to prove your point, where it's all scripted and everyone is in la la fake land, not reality, and actors are reading off lines and heck, it's not even a real plane. Wow somebody is full of piss and vinegar. I have no idea why you are so negative. All I did was link the proposal scene from the Wedding Singer. Do you hate Adam Sandler or something? I don't have a clue why you think I'm trying to prove a point.
pollywag Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 Awwww that's a great idea! Get the pilot to make an announcement after take-off see if they will comply. They usually do the "we'll flying over...and arriving at..." and the flight attendants do their thingy about the meal being served and after all that get the pilot to come and ask her on your behalf. That would SO GREAT! All the best, however you decide to do it!!! Sounds like you are very much in love with a special lady since you are making such an elaborate plan!
carhill Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 FWIW, when my upgrades have cleared and my wife's have not, we switch seats, even from first or business to/from coach. The ladies always get to sit up front. The crew doesn't care, as long as it is a one-time thing. Switching seats in economy goes on all the time. I've earned plenty (usually drinks or BOB) from always sitting in the exit row On WN, it's a free for all anyway, so no worries. OP, if you do this, get the PIC and FO in on it. WN pilots generally are real characters, playing the practical jokes or distracting the soon to be betrothed while you execute. Hope it works out!
kdark Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 I don't think this is fair because she's going on a trip with her best friend, then suddenly the trip becomes about you. Maybe your girlfriend is just looking forward to a trip with her best friend. I would just let her take her trip and when she comes back, pick her up at the airport and take her out to dinner, and propose then. What you have described sounds awfully intrusive of plans she has already made, which include a flight and trip with her friend, not you. Also, you're not supposed to change seats during flight, and 'pop up' behind someone during a flight, let's be respectful of other people on the plane, geez. Not big on being spontaneous are we?
colosseum Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 If you plan it and do it right, I think it could be unforgettable. That said, if you don't I think it really won't bode well. This is one of those that IMO would be awesome or really bad, but nothing in between. PLEASE keep us updated: would LOVE to see a video of this too...
Author somedude7 Posted April 5, 2009 Author Posted April 5, 2009 Thanks everyone for chiming in. I'd like to address a few comments some people have made: 1) I am 100% sure she's going to say Yes - so there's no risk of this ruining the rest of the flight for either of us. 2) True, planes are not the most romantic place to propose, but this airline has a special meaning in our relationship. We're always looking for deals on Southwest to see each other (long distance), and it's usually the best airline between our cities. It's also a unique idea - everything else is too cheesy. 3) I don't plan on interfering with her vacation with the best friend. I'll return home on the first flight as soon as we land. I'm only going to fly to propose...that's it. She gets the rest of the weekend with her friend. 4) I don't plan to do it publicly. I will quietly propose to her when the attendant brings out the wine. no announcements, no noise, gimmicks etc. Most likely the people in the seats near us won't even know what happened (unless she screams). Her best friend will probably take a few pictures but that's about it. So there you have it folks. Thanks to everyone that was supportive of this idea. I think I'm gonna go for it, and I'll come back to share the story here in a few weeks
Cherished Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 I just think it would be rude to put the other people on the flight through that crap of asking them to switch seats, etc. sorry, that would be annoying. I personally would be pissed if you just popped up to do your thing, etc. when there is a flight going on. Then you haven't even thought of the issue of your girlfriend is going on a trip with her best friend. You get on that flight and suddenly it's not a best friend/girlfriend trip, it's an "I just got engaged" trip and maybe your girlfriend just wants a trip with her best friend. I mean she PLANNED this trip with her friend, can she just have a girlfriend's trip without you involved? Or is it truly that you don't trust your, or are jealous that she is taking a trip without you? I don't get why you are intent on changing her trip plans and why the engagement can't wait. On top of that, planes are kind of gross and public when you think about it.
colosseum Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 "Cherished" has to calm the **** down, geeze. But I am willing to concede that it may prove a distraction for your gf's best friend who might have just wanted to do spend time w/ her bf...but only you know the situation best. G'luck and keep us updated.
missdependant Posted April 5, 2009 Posted April 5, 2009 My god, Cherished calm down. If he's going to have the friend go in on it, what's the big deal? OBVIOUSLY, he's planning on consulting her best friend before just "inviting himself" along for the trip. I think it's really sweet and well-though out. It is cheesy, but any well-thought out proposal will seem cheesy. It sounds like the two of them fly a lot, and I doubt her friend would get mad about the fact that he's PROPOSING to her. Wow, of all the reasons to ruin a vacation; what nerve he must have! The proposal seems like a bigger deal than a short vacation anyway. Good luck and congrats!
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