Tryng2Trust08 Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 After telling him I thought we should take a break from texting, it went downhill from there. We ended up in an argument, and he said to me "No wonder your ex left you". I was in a very hurtful marriage, my ex cheated on me and sometimes it's still hard to deal with, he knows how much it hurt me. I can't stop thinking about this, even though deep down I know someone cheating on me wasn't my fault, but just him saying it made me think and I have been upset since. I feel incapable of a relationship Im angry at myself, I should've ignored him last week, I was doing so good.
Thomas X Forever Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 What a low blow on his behalf. No one should say something like that just for leverage in an argument. How truly cruel and insensitive. You should thank your lucky stars that you're incapable of relationships with cruel people and cheaters. THAT JUST MEANS YOU AREN'T ONE OF THEM.
Flying Burrito Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 You hurt him so he immediately struck back... Why beat yourself up over someone with the self-control of a 5 yr old?
crisla Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 "No wonder your ex left you". That is really mean things to say. He is a coward. If he cares about you , he won't say such things like that. Ignore him and try to move on. My ex keep messing up with me and right now I'm trying to deal with it. Good luck.
Author Tryng2Trust08 Posted April 4, 2009 Author Posted April 4, 2009 I know you guys are right...I said mean things to him also, it's very immature and it's better im out of the relationship because he brought me to his level. I feel the comment was just very unecessary and he did it with the intention of deeply hurting me. I have texted him telling him I couldnt believe he would say such a thing and he owes me an apology and how much that hurt me. He is ignoring me now. So, it's a little game I am not interested in playing. As soon as I back off he will text me in a few days. I just have to be strong this time and ignore him for good.
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