BrownEyedGrl18 Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 A few days ago my boyfriend of two years broke up with me over the phone. He dumped me not even a week after our anniversary. We were having some problems but nothing major and then out of no where he dumped me. I completely fell apart. Yesterday we met to give our stuff back to each other and he told me not to lose hope that we will get back together and in a week or two he will kick himself in the ass like what did I do? We also said we would stay friends and still hang out and have "fun". I text him today and told him I'd really like to talk to him about a few things he said yesterday and asked if he really meant if I should have hope or not about us being together again. After a few texts being ignored I decided to try calling 2 hang up later I lost it. I also told him about a dream I had (we decided to forget about anything we ever had and to start new as friends) and he told me that we can do that. When I met him to get my stuff we were laughing and having fun. I saw in his eyes that there was still something. His Dad died in August unexpectedly and I sat through it all with him. He even asked me to marry him, had a ring and all. I just dont know whether to believe him or not and to have hope. Without him I just feel like I want to die and nothing is worth it. I have two friends that have been amazing but I just don't know what to do anymore. Please if anyone has any advice I'd really appreicate it. I'm so lost. I didn't know pain could hurt this bad. I just want him back. I also forgot to mention...we go to the same college
EmperorR Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Basically he's stringing you out there, just in case you were to be ok with it and move on he's holding out the string there.
Excellent Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Aye, he's stringing you. Being friends with your ex so soon after a break won't work at all. It will only help him moving faster on, whilst you will be brought back to square one each time you hang out. I've been there, it doesn't work. Cut him off, and focus on healing yourself. The minute he is done healing, he will find someone else (if he hasn't already) and throw you away like a busted toy.
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