gavinus Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Basically my ex and me went out for 3 years, she dumped me. She had/has major anger problems which I allowed her to take out on me. She dumped me 8 weeks ago, (once I said no to marriage and kids until she gets her anger sorted, I have been trying to support her with that for 3 years) she also said awful hurtful stuff to me and I have been NC for 4 weeks. A week ago she sent me a text saying could I let her know at some stage if I got the email she sent me and how much does she ow me for accidentally breaking some stuff of mine. On advice from people here and friends etc I did not reply and last night I went out with friends for the first time since the breakup and even though I did not see her at all, all the women reminded me of her. I miss her terribly and am hurting. I want to text her! The only thing stopping me is if I do contact her that then says to her that I accept her treatment of me and that horrible stuff she said, also after 3 years of feeding her emotionally I don't want to do it anymore. All I want is the pain to go, but it is not. I do love her, but should I give up my self respect which I have recently gotten back? so I can end the pain? She has not said sorry at all. That one text she sent me as affected my whole week. I feel I am being hurtful if I do not reply, feeling weak, thank you in advance.
messed-mind Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 You need to keep up the NC, if you break it you're right back at the beginning. The feelings will fade in time, sticking with NC will allow you to heal and move past this.
Thomas X Forever Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 What a psycho she is. If you do contact her, then tell her she's fat and you/your friends didn't find her attractive at all. That's about all she deserves. God I hate people like that. Don't ever speak to her again. EVER.
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