Brady_to_Moss Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Will not having any dating experiance hurt me when i find a girl who might actually care about me?
confused_2008 Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 I don't think so. The main thing is for you to not think it's a big deal. The right girl won't care as long as you're not all hung up on it yourself. If she's concerned, tell her it's just never really happened for you. Sort of a take it or leave it attitude. That's the strategy I'm using right now and it seems to be going okay.
westernxer Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 If she does actually care about you, it won't matter. Then again, she might care but break your heart anyway. Either way, you'll be getting experience.
Cherished Posted April 3, 2009 Posted April 3, 2009 Well....if you get to be age 37 and a virgin, (not by choice) like this guy I know....yes, it will be a total turnoff to women.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted April 4, 2009 Author Posted April 4, 2009 Well....if you get to be age 37 and a virgin, (not by choice) like this guy I know....yes, it will be a total turnoff to women. Got 17 years until that point...hopefully i will find someone before then but who knows with me
SaffronBlu Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 It shouldn't at all. It's all a learning experience anyway. And perhaps staying away from confessing you're sparse dating history at the very beginning is a good thing too. I mean the past is the past, not important what happened before her anyway. Now get out there and find your special someone, already!
SoulSearch_CO Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Jeebus. I didn't have a relationship until I was 22 + 8 mos. LOL Don't put yourself in a panic just yet - you have plenty of time.
BobSacamento Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Even if it does don't you want to experience it? Aren't you curious to feel it?
collegekid491 Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Well....if you get to be age 37 and a virgin, (not by choice) like this guy I know....yes, it will be a total turnoff to women. Correction: 'it will be a total turnoff to SOME women' Experience helps you make educated moves in the dating game, but the outcome can be the same without it. The right girl will accept you for who you are, so just because you may not be able to defuse a bra in 1.5 seconds doesn't mean your lower on the chain then any other guy.
fishtaco Posted April 4, 2009 Posted April 4, 2009 Depends. If fate decides to drop that special someone right in your lap, then it doesn't matter. However if your destiny is that you'll meet that special someone by going out there and putting in the footwork, then you may miss your opportunity if you don't. And that's only half of the formula. You have to know how to be in a relationship as well. I can only speak for myself, but I'm certain most people go through the same thing - back in my younger days, I've done plenty of immature and dumb things. Those dumb things could damage or even break a relationship. I can say I am better at being in a relationship now because I have a better understanding about myself and what it means to be in a relationship. However some people do get it right the first time. Are you the type that is capable of that?
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